Violence appears in many forms in relationships. For the victim, it is hard to get out of this relationship because they are told that “it is all their fault” or “you provoked me.” It is important to realize your self-worth and step out of such toxic relationships.
The ‘is my partner violent?’ quiz is made to navigate your relationship and is not a diagnosis. If you are constantly apologizing in your relationship and gaslighted for your behavior, then you are in a violent relationship.
1. Have you ever been threatened by your partner?
A. Yes, I have been threatened
B. No, I don’t think so
C. I’m not sure
2. Do you always get blamed for the fights between you and your partner?
A. No, they don’t blame me
B. Sometimes
C. Yes, they always blame me
3. Do you always apologize in the relationship?
A. Not always, but sometimes
B. No, I don’t
C. Yes, I do
4. Do they stop you from meeting your family and friends?
A. Yes, they do
B. No, they would never do that
C. I think they don’t let me to hang out with other people
5. Have they ever been violent in public with you?
A. Yes, they have
B. No, they are always well-behaved
C. They do that sometimes
6. Do you feel that your partner is quite controlling?
A. Yes, they are
B. No, they are not controlling
C. Sometimes
7. Have you ever been physically abused by your partner?
A. No, I haven’t
B. Yes, just this once
C. Yes, I have been
8. Do you feel safe around your partner?
A. Yes, I do
B. No, I don’t
C. Yes, as long as he is not angry
9. Are you cautious of your behavior around them to maintain peace in the relationship?
A. I don’t have to do that with them
B. I think so
C. I’m not sure
10. Do you think you will not be able to step out of the relationship?
A. It won’t be easy for me
B. Yes, I think so
C. My partner lets me be
