1. Does your partner minimize or undermine your feelings?
2. Has your partner ever told you that you are too sensitive or overreacting?
3. Do you feel pressured to make decisions that you are uncomfortable with?
4. When discussing issues, does your partner often change the topic to avoid accountability?
5. Yes, I often feel like I must cheer them up or fix their problems
6. Does your partner often make you feel responsible for their emotional state?
7. Does your partner make dramatic statements all the time?
8. Does your partner pass sarcastic comments when they are not pleased?
9. Does your partner express their anger through passive aggressive behavior like sulking, silent treatment et cetera?
10. Have you felt isolated from your loved ones since you met your partner?
11. Do you ever feel like you are being blamed for something you didn’t do?
12. Do you often feel overwhelming guilt because of how they make you feel?
13. Do you ever have to prove yourself to this person for them to believe you?
14. Does this person make you feel insignificant?
15. Do you feel like they are always switching up your words or putting words in your mouth or like no matter what you say, it is wrong?
16. Do you feel like this person is hiding things from you?
17. Do you ever confront someone else’s behavior and then get blamed for it?
18. When there is a disagreement, does it seem like the other person is always the victim?
19. Do you ever feel taken advantage of?
20. Do you feel your partner will pick a fight with you over anything?
