Is My Girlfriend A Narcissist Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 5808 | Updated: Apr 22, 2025
1. What was your initial attraction to your girlfriend when you first met?

Her personality and how attracted I was to her
Her carefree attitude and how hard she tried to get my attention
How real and down to earth she was
She knew what she wanted, and nothing could stop her
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2. What type of person is your girlfriend in a conversation?

She loves to dominate the conversation and always talks herself up
She often exaggerates or twists the truth to impress others or keep the spotlight on herself
She is more reserved in groups and keeps her true self hidden
She is always the one taking things too far, even if it starts as a funny joke
3. Is your girlfriend much different after getting to know her than you initially thought?

Yes, definitely
Somewhat
A little bit
No
4. Could you rely on your girlfriend when you need her?

No, not really
She is very present, sometimes to the point of ignoring boundaries or overwhelming me
For the most part
Yes, always
5. Does your girlfriend expect instant gratification to fulfill her needs, whether it be answering calls/texts, pressure to do what they want to do, etc.?

Yes, definitely
She gets impatient when her needs are not met right away or expect constant attention
A little bit
No
6. Does your girlfriend get a rush from disobeying rules or disregarding social norms?

Yes, definitely
Somewhat
A little bit
No
7. Does your girlfriend expect preferential treatment from people and consider herself more important than most other people?

Yes, definitely
Somewhat
A little bit
No
8. Has your girlfriend had a hurtful past that she is still trying to get over?

She constantly plays the victim, even when her past seems relatively stable or privileged
I am not sure; she doesn’t open up about that
She struggles with her childhood
She seems stuck in guilt from her past and has a hard time forgiving herself, even when others already have
9. What would your girlfriend say when introducing you to her friends?

“I can’t wait to make everyone so jealous when I show you off”
“If anyone says anything to you that you don’t like, I will tell them off"
“I am just nervous because I want this to go well, and I want everyone to approve of this relationship”
“I hope they don’t embarrass me and talk about all the things I have done”
10. Does your girlfriend seem to put others down?

Yes, definitely
Somewhat
A little bit
No
11. How does your girlfriend react when someone disagrees with her?

She gets angry or dismissive like her opinion is always superior
She tries to manipulate the situation or twist facts to stay in control
She shuts down or gets visibly anxious, as if conflict feels unsafe
She gets upset and tends to spiral emotionally, even if it is a small issue
12. How does your girlfriend handle compliments or praise?

She expects it constantly and becomes cold if she does not receive it
She acts like she does not care but always brings the attention back to herself
She seems uncomfortable or downplays it, like she does not believe it
She enjoys it but often uses humor or sarcasm to deflect
13. How does your girlfriend act when she is wrong about something?

She will never admit it—she shifts blame or rewrites the story
She acts like it is not a big deal but becomes passive-aggressive later
She gets flustered like she is trying to avoid punishment or judgment
She apologizes but then beats herself up for days afterward
14. What is your girlfriend's relationship with her family like?

She brags about being the "favorite" or the one who turned out the best
It is chaotic—lots of drama, secrets, and shifting alliances
She talks about a parent being controlling, critical, or emotionally distant
She says she has made mistakes with her family and is still trying to earn back their trust
15. How does your girlfriend talk about her exes?

She says they were all toxic, crazy, or jealous—but never admits any faults herself
She says they were obsessed with her, and she had to leave for her own sanity
She hints at painful experiences but avoids going into detail
She is emotional or regretful and admits she still has unresolved feelings or guilt
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