Is My Girlfriend A Narcissist Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 5536 | Updated: Apr 22, 2025
Is My Girlfriend a Narcissist Quiz

Something just feels... off. Maybe she turns every conversation back to herself or makes you feel small when you try to express your needs.

You care about her, of course—but sometimes you wonder, "Is it me, or is this something deeper?"

It is not easy to question someone you love and even harder to face the answers. This "Is my girlfriend a narcissist?" quiz is here to help you gently explore your feelings without judgment and maybe bring a little clarity where there is confusion.

Questions Excerpt

1. What was your initial attraction to your girlfriend when you first met?

A. Her personality and how attracted I was to her

B. Her carefree attitude and how hard she tried to get my attention

C. How real and down to earth she was

D. She knew what she wanted, and nothing could stop her

2. What type of person is your girlfriend in a conversation?

A. She loves to dominate the conversation and always talks herself up

B. She often exaggerates or twists the truth to impress others or keep the spotlight on herself

C. She is more reserved in groups and keeps her true self hidden

D. She is always the one taking things too far, even if it starts as a funny joke

3. Is your girlfriend much different after getting to know her than you initially thought?

A. Yes, definitely

B. Somewhat

C. A little bit

D. No

4. Could you rely on your girlfriend when you need her?

A. No, not really

B. She is very present, sometimes to the point of ignoring boundaries or overwhelming me

C. For the most part

D. Yes, always

5. Does your girlfriend expect instant gratification to fulfill her needs, whether it be answering calls/texts, pressure to do what they want to do, etc.?

A. Yes, definitely

B. She gets impatient when her needs are not met right away or expect constant attention

C. A little bit

D. No

6. Does your girlfriend get a rush from disobeying rules or disregarding social norms?

A. Yes, definitely

B. Somewhat

C. A little bit

D. No

7. Does your girlfriend expect preferential treatment from people and consider herself more important than most other people?

A. Yes, definitely

B. Somewhat

C. A little bit

D. No

8. Has your girlfriend had a hurtful past that she is still trying to get over?

A. She constantly plays the victim, even when her past seems relatively stable or privileged

B. I am not sure; she doesn’t open up about that

C. She struggles with her childhood

D. She seems stuck in guilt from her past and has a hard time forgiving herself, even when others already have

9. What would your girlfriend say when introducing you to her friends?

A. “I can’t wait to make everyone so jealous when I show you off”

B. “If anyone says anything to you that you don’t like, I will tell them off"

C. “I am just nervous because I want this to go well, and I want everyone to approve of this relationship”

D. “I hope they don’t embarrass me and talk about all the things I have done”

10. Does your girlfriend seem to put others down?

A. Yes, definitely

B. Somewhat

C. A little bit

D. No

11. How does your girlfriend react when someone disagrees with her?

A. She gets angry or dismissive like her opinion is always superior

B. She tries to manipulate the situation or twist facts to stay in control

C. She shuts down or gets visibly anxious, as if conflict feels unsafe

D. She gets upset and tends to spiral emotionally, even if it is a small issue

12. How does your girlfriend handle compliments or praise?

A. She expects it constantly and becomes cold if she does not receive it

B. She acts like she does not care but always brings the attention back to herself

C. She seems uncomfortable or downplays it, like she does not believe it

D. She enjoys it but often uses humor or sarcasm to deflect

13. How does your girlfriend act when she is wrong about something?

A. She will never admit it—she shifts blame or rewrites the story

B. She acts like it is not a big deal but becomes passive-aggressive later

C. She gets flustered like she is trying to avoid punishment or judgment

D. She apologizes but then beats herself up for days afterward

14. What is your girlfriend's relationship with her family like?

A. She brags about being the "favorite" or the one who turned out the best

B. It is chaotic—lots of drama, secrets, and shifting alliances

C. She talks about a parent being controlling, critical, or emotionally distant

D. She says she has made mistakes with her family and is still trying to earn back their trust

15. How does your girlfriend talk about her exes?

A. She says they were all toxic, crazy, or jealous—but never admits any faults herself

B. She says they were obsessed with her, and she had to leave for her own sanity

C. She hints at painful experiences but avoids going into detail

D. She is emotional or regretful and admits she still has unresolved feelings or guilt

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