Do you often look at your girlfriend and wonder, “Is my girlfriend a narcissist?” Narcissism is a mental disorder described as a person with an inflated sense of self and their importance with a deep longing for admiration. Someone with Narcissistic Personality Disorder considers themselves superior to others and has little to no regard for others and their feelings. This self-absorbed and arrogant sense of self could take a toll on any relationship, whether with a family member, friend, or significant other. So, how could you tell if you are dating a female narcissist? There are obvious signs that should give you the answer. Take this quiz now to find out if you are dating a female narcissist.
1. Could you rely on your girlfriend when you need her?
A. No, not really
B. She is always there, whether I want her to be or not
C. For the most part
D. Yes, always
2. Does your girlfriend expect instant gratification to fulfill her needs, whether it be answer calls/texts, pressure to do what they want to do, etc.?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Somewhat
C. A little bit
D. No
3. Does your girlfriend get a rush from disobeying rules or disregarding social norms?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Somewhat
C. A little bit
D. No
4. Does your girlfriend expect preferential treatment from people and consider herself more important than most other people?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Somewhat
C. A little bit
D. No
5. Has your girlfriend had a hurtful past that she is still trying to get over?
A. She always considers herself the victim, but it doesn’t seem she’s had any real issues in her past that she is still dealing with
B. I am not sure; she doesn’t open up about that
C. She struggles with her childhood
D. She struggles with mistakes she has made in the past that seem to haunt her still, and she hasn’t forgiven herself
6. What would your girlfriend say when introducing you to her friends?
A. “I can’t wait to make everyone so jealous when I show you off”
B. “If anyone says anything to you that you don’t like, I will tell them of"
C. “I am just nervous because I want this to go well, and I want everyone to approve of this relationship”
D. “I hope they don’t embarrass me and talk about all the shit I have done”
7. Does your girlfriend seem to put others down?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Somewhat
C. A little bit
D. No
8. What was your initial attraction to your girlfriend when you first met?
A. Her personality and how attracted I was to her
B. Her carefree attitude and how hard she tried to get my attention
C. How real and down to earth she was
D. She knew what she wanted, and nothing could stop her
9. What type of person is your girlfriend in a conversation?
A. She loves to dominate the conversation and always talks herself up
B. She often embellishes the truth to make for a great story
C. She is more reserved in groups and keeps her true self hidden
D. She is always the one taking things too far, even if it starts as a funny joke
10. Is your girlfriend much different after getting to know her than you thought she was initially?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Somewhat
C. A little bit
D. No
