Is My Ex Boyfriend Testing Me Quiz?

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 82 | Updated: Jun 28, 2023

1. Does your ex boyfriend often initiate contact with you?


Yes, he reaches out frequently
No, he rarely or never reaches out
Sometimes, but not consistently
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 Is My Ex Boyfriend Testing Me Quiz?

Understanding the intentions of an ex boyfriend can be a complex and emotionally challenging task. This 10-question Is My Ex Boyfriend Testing Me quiz is designed to help you evaluate his behavior and determine if he might be testing you.

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3. Does your ex boyfriend make vague or indirect references to your past relationship?


Yes, he often brings up past memories or inside jokes
No, he never mentions our past relationship
Occasionally, but it's not a regular occurrence

4. Does your ex boyfriend ask about your current dating life?


Yes, he often inquires about my dating status
No, he never asks about my personal life
Sometimes, but it's not a frequent topic

5. Does your ex boyfriend show signs of jealousy when you're around other potential partners?


Yes, he often appears jealous or possessive
No, he doesn't show any signs of jealousy
I'm not sure, their reactions are hard to read

6. Does your ex boyfriend often share their personal or emotional problems with you?


Yes, he frequently seeks my support or advice
No, he rarely or never shares their personal issues with me
Sometimes, but it's not a common occurrence

7. Does your ex boyfriend show mixed signals, like being warm one moment and distant the next?


Yes, their behavior often fluctuates
No, their behavior towards me is consistent
Occasionally, but it could just be their natural behavior

8. Does your ex boyfriend seem to go out of their way to make sure you see them having a good time (e.g., on social media)?


Yes, he often seems to be showing off their social life
No, he doesn’t appear to be portraying an exaggerated social life
Sometimes, but it's hard to determine their intentions

9. Does your ex boyfriend compliment you often, especially compared to when you were in a relationship?


Yes, he gives me more compliments now
No, he doesn't compliment me any more than he used to
Occasionally, but the frequency hasn't changed drastically

10. Does your ex boyfriend touch you in a familiar or intimate way (like touching your arm, hugging, etc.) when you interact?


Yes, he often initiates physical contact
No, he maintains their physical boundaries
Sometimes, but it's not frequent or overly intimate

11. Has your ex boyfriend suggested catching up over coffee, a meal, or suggested doing something you used to do together?


Yes, he often suggests we spend time together
No, he has never suggested meeting up
Occasionally, but not in a regular or insistent manner
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