1. Does your father make disparaging remarks to you, such as "You're a loser" or "You'll never amount to anything?"
2. Do you feel you have to walk on eggshells around your father to avoid setting them off?
3. Has your father threatened to disown you or hurt you for your choices?
4. Is your father critical of your appearance?
5. Has your father hit you or used physical pain to discipline you on several occasions?
6. Do you have a hard time saying "No" to your father?
7. Does your father overreact to minor things and blame you even when it's not your fault?
8. Do you feel uncomfortable approaching your father with your problems?
9. Does your father treat you poorly when they're in a bad mood?
10. Do you have to contemplate leaving home more than once because of your father?
11. Does your father respect your boundaries and personal choices?
12. Does your father acknowledge your accomplishments or successes?
13. Does your father apologize or take responsibility when he’s wrong?
14. Do you feel safe expressing your true self around your father?
15. Does your father encourage your independence and growth?