1. Does he make you a priority?
A. Not at all
C. Most of the time
D. Yes, I always feel that way
2. Do you feel like he is often deceptive about who he’s talking to, where he goes and who he’s with?
A. Yes, I suspect that
B. A lot of the time, I feel out of the loop
C. Sometimes, he is shady
D. No, I don’t think so
3. Does he tell you he likes you?
A. Yes, he always does
B. He will tell me that sometimes
C. He has a few times, but it’s confusing in his actions
D. No, he hasn’t told me that
4. Do you feel like he often remembers the things you tell him?
A. Yes, he remembers even the smallest details that I don’t even remember telling him sometimes
B. I think he remembers some things, but definitely not specific details
C. Most times I do
D. No, he never listens
5. Do you feel like he treats you differently than he treats other women?
A. No, I don’t think so
C. Yes, often
D. A few times I did
6. Does he bring you around his family and friends often?
A. I am almost never around his friend and don’t really know his family
B. On occasions
D. Yes, a lot of the time he does
7. Do you often feel like he disappoints you?
A. No, not really
B. Sometimes I feel I have expectations that he is never going to meet because that’s just not how he is, So I feel like I set myself up to be disappointed
C. It doesn't happen often, but it definitely happens more than I would like.
D. He isn’t very dependable.
8. How would you describe your closeness and intimacy on an emotional level?
A. He has opened up to me about a lot of things in his life that he says he hasn’t told many people about.
B. He opens up, but sometimes it seems like he is very guarded with what he is willing to share.
C. I feel I have to pry it out of him instead of him just opening up to me.
D. I always feel a disconnect in our relationship because he refuses to talk about anything on an emotional level.
9. When it comes to making plans, does he usually keep them?
A. He is always canceling plans or making changes last minute
B. He is very inconsistent
C. Most of the time, he does
D. Yes, he does
10. Does he make you feel special?
A. No, he mostly makes me feel the opposite
C. Yes, sometimes
D. Yes, most of the time