1. Does he go out without telling you where he is?
A. Yes, all the time
B. No, not at all
C. Well, occasionally I don’t know where he is. But usually he tells me if I ask.
D. Sometimes, only very very recently.
2. Is he receiving text messages from mysterious numbers?
A. Yes, one very consistently
B. How would I know that, I haven’t looked at his phone?
C. Yes, but I think I recognize the number
D. I keep checking but they must be hidden very well.
3. Has he been pulling away from you?
A. Yes, we barely talk anymore
B. Not really
C. Hard to say, I think so, but then I don’t know, yes
D. Sometimes I think so, but it goes back and forth
4. Is he talking in a hushed voice on the phone?
A. Yes, all the time and he seems excited
C. Yes, and he tries to hide it away and gets off quickly
D. Sometimes, well, once I came in and he got off the phone soon after I walked in
5. Does he dodge questions when you ask him about it?
A. I haven’t asked him about it
B. Yes, and then he gets this shifty grin
C. No, he answers me very quickly and directly but I think he is getting annoyed with the questions
D. Yeah, he never seems to have satisfying answers. He gets so nervous
6. Have you been fighting more?
A. Yes, we fight so much now
B. Yes, but I start most of them
C. No, about the same as normal
D. No, it seems like he’s being slightly nicer even
7. Has his schedule changed?
A. No, same old same old
B. Yes, but he told me that he has this new obligation
C. Yes, without warning and it’s a bit irregular
D. Sorta, he has had a couple of changes, but nothing major
8. Is his best friend acting weird around you?
A. Yeah, he seems totally weird, something is off
B. No, same old same old
C. Yes, he’s acting super guilty and weirdly nice, but also just barely says anything
D. No, but he’s always pretty suspicious
9. Do you feel a wide gulf between you?
B. No, we feel pretty close actually
C. Something is off, but it’s not that bad
D. If by wide gulf you mean I wouldn’t trust him as far as I can throw him, yes
10. Has he been changing how he dresses?
A. Yes, he’s putting way more effort into it
C. Not that I have noticed, maybe a bit less effort
D. Not that I’ve noticed and I’ve been searching his clothes for lipstick stains