Is He Using Me Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 2702 | Updated: Apr 03, 2025
1. Does his attitude change around people?

Yes
No
Sometimes
He tries to be nice to impress others
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Is He Using Me Quiz
Being used by a partner is something some people may feel like every day. When you are in love with someone, you usually try to make things work. Sometimes, this devotion doesn’t seem reciprocal, primarily when your partner cheats on you, lies ... see more
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2. Do you think you are his girlfriend?

Yes
I think so
I don't know
I don't think so
3. Has he ever mentioned planning a future with you?

All the time
Rarely
Only when I do
Never
4. Does he respect you?

Yes
I think so
No
No, but he doesn't disrespect me
5. What do your friends think about your relationship?

He is using me
He might be using me
He is not using me
They are not really sure
6. Have you met or talked to his parents?

Yes
No
Over the phone
He refused to take the relationship to that level
7. Has he met or talked to your parents?

No
I tried, but he refused
He talked to them over the phone
Yes
8. Is he always loving?

Yes
No
Sometimes
I can't determine
9. Does he like being seen with you in public?

Yes
No
Selectively
Occasionally
10. Does he force you to do things you don't like?

Yes
Sometimes
Mostly
No
11. Are you the only one paying the bill in the house?

Yes
Sometimes
Not really
No
12. Do you sometimes feel like you are buying your partner’s love and affection?

Yes
No
Sometimes
I can't determine
13. Is your partner nicer when he needs you?

Yes, definitely
Sometimes
No, he is nice all the time
I can’t determine for sure
14. Is your partner around when you need them?

Yes, all the time
Intermittently
Yes, but I doubt whether it is sincere
Not always as he is very unpredictable
15. Does your partner run to someone else when he feels he doesn’t need you?

Yes, sometimes
All the time
Maybe, when he wants additional attention
I don't think so
16. Does your partner hesitate a lot before telling you that he loves you?

Yes
Sometimes
No, but it is not sincere
Not at all, he is very vocal
17. How many times a week is your partner intimate with you?

Once
Twice
More than 5 times
Rarely
18. Does your partner always ask you for money?

Yes, all the time
Sometimes
Not in front of me, but maybe behind my back
No, never
19. Does your partner flirt with other women in front of you?

Yes, all the time
Sometimes
Not in front of you, but maybe behind your back
No
20. Does your partner like kissing you as much as you like kissing him?

Yes, of course
Only when he needs something
Only when he is in the mood
Only when he wants to do it
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