Being used by a partner is something some people may feel like every day. When you are in love with someone, you usually try to make things work. Sometimes, this devotion doesn’t seem reciprocal, primarily when your partner cheats on you, lies to you, and doesn’t seem to honor his word.
Nothing is more devastating than feeling used by your partner, so do you think it is the case with you? Take our ‘Is he using me’ quiz and find out now.
1. Are you the only one paying the bill in the house?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Not really
D. No
2. Does your partner like kissing you as much as you like kissing him?
A. Yes, of course
B. Only when he needs something
C. Only when he is in the mood
D. Only when he wants to do it
3. Does your partner flirt with other women in front of you?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. Not in front of you, but maybe behind your back
D. No
4. Does your partner always ask you for money?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. Not in front of me, but maybe behind my back
D. No, never
5. Does his attitude change around people?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. He tries to be nice to impress others
6. Does he force you to do things you don't like?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Mostly
D. No
7. How many times a week is your partner intimate with you?
A. Once
B. Twice
C. More than 5 times
D. Rarely
8. Does your partner hesitate a lot before telling you that he loves you?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No, but it is not sincere
D. Not at all, he is very vocal
9. Does he like being seen with you in public?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Selectively
D. Occasionally
10. Is he always loving?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. I can't determine
11. Has he met or talked to your parents?
A. No
B. I tried, but he refused
C. He talked to them over the phone
D. Yes
12. Have you met or talked to his parents?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Over the phone
D. He refused to take the relationship to that level
13. Does your partner run to someone else when he feels he doesn’t need you?
A. Yes, sometimes
B. All the time
C. Maybe, when he wants additional attention
D. I don't think so
14. What do your friends think about your relationship?
A. He is using me
B. He might be using me
C. He is not using me
D. They are not really sure
15. Is your partner around when you need them?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Intermittently
C. Yes, but I doubt whether it is sincere
D. Not always as he is very unpredictable
16. Does he respect you?
A. Yes
B. I think so
C. No
D. No, but he doesn't disrespect me
17. Is your partner nicer when he needs you?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Sometimes
C. No, he is nice all the time
D. I can’t determine for sure
18. Has he ever mentioned planning a future with you?
A. All the time
B. Rarely
C. Only when I do
D. Never
19. Do you sometimes feel like you are buying your partner’s love and affection?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. I can't determine
20. Do you think you are his girlfriend?
A. Yes
B. I think so
C. I don't know
D. I don't think so
