How Strong Is Your Relationship Really?

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20 Questions | Updated: Oct 09, 2025
1. The last time you celebrated something important (like a promotion, birthday, or milestone), did your partner make it feel special?

Yes, they always do
Sometimes
Rarely
Not at all
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2. How connected do you feel to your partner on an average day?

Very connected
Somewhat connected
Occasionally disconnected
Mostly disconnected
3. How would you describe the overall balance of emotional support in your relationship?

We support each other equally
One of us supports more
It varies a lot
There’s little emotional support
4. How often do you express gratitude or appreciation for your partner’s efforts?

Daily or often
Sometimes
Rarely
Never
5. How comfortable are you discussing disagreements or difficult topics with your partner?

Very comfortable
Somewhat comfortable
Occasionally uncomfortable
Very uncomfortable
6. How often do you and your partner discuss long-term goals or plans (e.g., finances, family, or personal growth)?

Regularly
Occasionally
Rarely
Never
7. Do you know one thing your partner is currently stressed about?

Yes, for sure
I think so
Not really
No idea
8. The last time you were apart (for work, travel, etc.), how often did you check in with each other?

Daily or more
Every few days
Rarely
Not at all
9. When your partner had a bad day recently, how did you respond?

Comforted them in the way they needed
Tried to help, but not sure it worked
Gave them space without asking
Didn’t really respond
10. Do you know the name of your partner’s favorite song, band, or type of music?

Yes, definitely
I think so
Not really
No idea
11. The last time you had to make an important decision about your health or career, did you ask for your partner’s input?

Yes, right away
Eventually, yes
No, I didn’t think to
No, I avoid it
12. Do you know your partner’s biggest dream or goal for the future?

Yes, very clearly
I have some idea
Not really
No idea
13. The last time you had to make financial decisions (like savings, expenses, or purchases), did you involve your partner?

Yes, fully
Partly
Rarely
Not at all
14. Do you know your partner’s favorite food or drink order (like coffee or pizza topping)?

Yes, every time
Most of the time
Rarely
No idea
15. The last time your partner seemed stressed, did you notice without them telling you?

Yes, right away
Sometimes I catch it
Rarely
No, I usually don’t notice
16. When was the last time you gave your partner a genuine compliment?

In the last day
Within the last week
More than a month ago
Can’t remember
17. Do you know your partner’s favorite weekend activity?

Yes, exactly
I can guess
Not really
No idea
18. The last time your partner was sick, how did you respond?

I took care of them fully
Helped with some things
Just checked in
Didn’t do much
19. Do you know the name of your partner’s closest friend?

Yes, definitely
I think so
Not sure
No idea
20. When was the last time you and your partner did an activity together just for fun (like a movie, walk, or trip)?

This week
In the past month
More than 2 months ago
Can’t remember

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