Which of the following statements most accurately describes their current relationship with their ex?

They obsess over their ex's posts on social media and follow them religiously

They have a distant but friendly relationship and handle any shared responsibilities with grace

How do they talk about their ex and serious relationship?

Rant about how they've been taken advantage of

They have a balanced perspective on both other people and past relationships

Past relationships aren't the only source of emotional baggage. How do they talk about their family and childhood?

They’re weirdly quiet about that

They have some traumatic experiences. I'm determined not to let them get in the way of my current happiness

They talk about pretty good things

What do they look like when a sad song is playing?

They act as if everything is fine, but it's definitely not..

I've seen them cry a couple of times

Everyone makes mistakes, right? When they do, they are...

Immediately defensive and accusatory

Overwhelmed with guilt to the point where the situation becomes all about them and their feelings

Willing to engage in difficult conversations, learn from their mistakes, and make efforts to change their behavior

Lastly, which of the following statements most accurately describes your partner?

They don't have many outside interests or relationships, and they want to be a part of everything in your life

They are afraid that your friends and family will endanger your relationship and will try to isolate you

They want to know and possibly even monitor where you are at all times

How Much Emotional Baggage Does Your Partner Have Quiz?

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 81 | Updated: Apr 29, 2022

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