Having a narcissistic mother can be very difficult for you because of the ways she likes to interfere in your life. They may ruin everything because they think that they can never be wrong. A narcissistic mother may want your life to resemble theirs as they always try to compare your choices and actions to the ones they used to make when they were your age. And that can be suffocating and frustrating. So, do you have a narcissistic mother? If yes, take our ‘Is My Mother a Narcissist Quiz’ now.
1. How many times does your mother call you in a day?
A. Once
B. Twice
C. Three times
D. Four times
2. Do you feel like your mother likes competing with you?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes you feel like it but are too afraid to tell her
D. It's possible but you love her too much to see her on that optic
3. Do you appreciate your mother’s presence in your life?
A. Yes, a lot
B. Not really
C. I would like to but she invades my space a bit too much
D. Yes, but she just doesn't have enough time for me
4. Are you happy with the way your mother interacts with your partner/friends?
A. Yes, I've got no problem with it
B. Yes, since we are both very close
C. No, I don't want her to interact with them
D. No, since she never really has the time to meet them
5. Does your mother overshadow you?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. No, not at all
D. She gives me all the space I need because she has her own life
6. Are you comfortable with the way your mother talks about you in front of your friends?
A. Yes, why shouldn't I be
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, most of the time
7. How does your mother react when you tell her about herself?
A. She tries to understand to me
B. Very badly
C. She gets angry
D. She gets sad
8. Do you see your mom as a selfish person?
A. No, because she is too focused on all the people in her life
B. Yes, because she wants to steal my life
C. Yes, because she thinks I need her in my life, while I don't
D. No, she’s the best mother in the world
9. Do you avoid your mother?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. No!
D. On rare occasions
10. What are the main things you dislike about your mother’s narcissism?
A. That she enters my conversations uninvited
B. That she is too involved in my life
C. Nothing
D. Not much, because I don't think she's narcissistic
11. Do you feel loved by your mother?
A. Yes, of course
B. Yes, she dotes on me
C. Sometimes
D. Not really
12. Does your mother blame you for things that go wrong in her life?
A. Not at all
B. No, she is not like that
C. Sometimes
D. All the times
13. Does your mother have unrealistic expectations from you?
A. Yes, I think so
B. No, she does not expect anything from me
C. No, not at all
D. Yes, sometimes
14. Did you feel responsible for taking care of your mother?
A. Yes, totally
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Not really
D. No, she always take care of herself
15. Do you think your mother manipulates you?
A. Yes, totally
B. Sometimes
C. She is not manipulative at all
D. She doesn’t waste her time on things like these
