1. Do you want to get married to your partner?
A. Yes. I want to be married soon
B. Maybe someday, it's not my primary goal
C. No, I am not interested in getting married
2. Do you want to have children with your partner?
A. Yes! I plan to have children in the future
B. One day, maybe I could see myself with children
C. No, I do not intend to have children with my significant other
3. Do you find flaws in the people you date?
A. No, I don’t look for flaws in the people I date
B. Sometimes, I try to accept everyone as they are, but I notice unfavorable things about them
C. I tend to find flaws in everyone I date
4. Were you treated poorly or hurt in a past relationship?
A. Yes, I have been treated badly by people I have dated in the past
B. No, my relationships have been healthy and positive
C. In some of my relationships, but mostly no
5. Do you make dates and cancel?
A. No, I like going out with my partner and meeting new people
B. Sometimes, I cancel, but I try to reschedule
C. Yes, It is hard to hold onto commitments
6. Do you enjoy spending most of your time with your partner?
A. Yes, I plan to spend my life with them, so I hope to spend most of my time with them
B. Not most of my time, but I enjoy spending significant time with them
C. I prefer to spend my time alone or with other people
7. Are you able to commit to other areas of your life, work, school, etc.?
A. Yes, I can easily commit to my job and other areas of my life
B. I can commit to some things, but it can still be difficult
C. I do not like to commit to work or love
8. Are you afraid of being alone?
A. I do not like being alone
B. I enjoy being alone, but I also like the company of others
C. I like being alone
9. Have you ever been cheated on?
A. I have not been cheated on
B. I have not been cheated on, to my knowledge
C. Yes, I have been cheated on, and I think it’s why I might have commitment issues
10. Have you ever felt as if your partner was suffocating you in the relationship?
A. No, I want to spend as much time as possible with my partner
B. Sometimes I feel like I need more space
C. Yes, I constantly feel like I need time away from them