When you question whether you are being used by the one you love, it can be an extremely painful feeling. When you establish a relationship and love your partner dearly and they still don't reciprocate that love back, you might wonder whether they are using you for only the things that give them happiness.
It isn't uncommon in our modern age for spouses to use their partners to get what they want. This can be for financial reasons, materialistic pursuits or attention. Once you've caught on, it's important to address the matter and see if it's really true, but that can be difficult.
Luckily, this short “Does my wife use me” quiz can help you find out if your wife is using you.
1. Does your wife only show affection when it benefits her?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Never
2. Does she frequently ask for things that she wants?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No
3. Does she ask for money frequently?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No
4. Does she appear uninterested in you once she gets what she wants?
A. Always
B. Sometimes
C. Never
5. Does she always expect you to take care of her needs?
A. Always
B. Occasionally
C. No
6. Does she ever genuinely thank you?
A. No
B. Occasionally
C. Yes
7. Have you been feeling some sort of internal bitterness towards them?
A. Definitely
B. Somewhat
C. Not at all
8. Do you feel emotionally supported by her?
A. Never
B. At times
C. Yes
9. How fulfilled do you feel because of the love you share with your wife?
A. Not fulfilled
B. Mildly fulfilled
C. Very fulfilled
10. Do you feel appreciated after you've given your wife what she wants?
A. Not at all
B. Somewhat
C. Yes
