Do You Have A Selfish Partner Quiz?

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 22274 | Updated: Aug 25, 2023
 Do You Have a Selfish Partner Quiz?

Are you unsure if your partner is truly selfless or if their actions are driven by selfish motives? Take the "Do You Have a Selfish Partner Test" to gain insight into your relationship dynamics. This engaging quiz will help you evaluate your partner's behavior and determine if their actions align with your needs and expectations.

Discover if your partner respects your boundaries, prioritizes your happiness, and makes you feel valued and appreciated. Explore whether they take responsibility for their mistakes and make an effort to understand your perspective. By answering questions like these, you'll gain valuable insights into your relationship dynamics and whether your partner's actions align with your needs.

Questions Excerpt

1. Do you feel like you are the most important thing in the world, to your partner?

A. Yes

B. No, not at all

C. Sometimes I do, other times I don’t

D. Most of the time and it can be scary because they are possessive

2. Does your partner make a scene when they don’t get their way?

A. Yes

B. No, they don't

C. Sometimes, but it’s out of love or for a need of attention

D. Yes, but it's rare

3. Do you pay attention to your lover’s needs more than they pay attention to yours?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Sometimes I do

C. My partner is extremely attentive to me

D. We are almost equally attentive

4. Does your partner share their wealth with you?

A. Yes, of course

B. Some of it

C. Just a little bit

D. No

5. Are you miserable in the relationship because of your partner’s selfishness?

A. Yes, I feel bad all the time

B. Yes, I feel like a prisoner

C. Yes, sometimes I feel like they do too much

D. No, not at all

6. Does your partner share more details about their life than you do?

A. No, I am the one who shares all the time

B. They share a little bit of it

C. Not really

D. Yes, of course

7. Does your partner listen to you?

A. Always

B. Sometimes

C. Only when it fits them

D. I think so

8. Does your partner make it all about them when you fight?

A. Yes, all the time just to make me feel bad

B. Yes, just for me to feel guilty about the situation

C. No, they would never do that

D. Yes, just to have a better grasp on me

9. Do you feel like your partner respects your boundaries?

A. Yes, they always respect my boundaries

B. Sometimes, they push them but apologize afterwards

C. No, they often disregard my boundaries

D. I'm not sure, it's hard to tell

10. Does your partner prioritize your happiness?

A. Yes, they always put my happiness first

B. Sometimes, they prioritize their own happiness more

C. No, they rarely consider my happiness

D. It varies, depending on the situation

11. Does your partner make an effort to understand your perspective?

A. Yes, they always try to see things from my point of view

B. Sometimes, but they often dismiss my perspective

C. No, they never try to understand my perspective

D. They try, but they struggle to fully grasp it

12. Does your partner make you feel valued and appreciated?

A. Yes, they constantly show their appreciation for me

B. Sometimes, but it could be more often

C. No, I rarely feel valued or appreciated by them

D. It's hard to say, their actions are inconsistent

13. Does your partner take responsibility for their mistakes?

A. Yes, they always admit when they're wrong and apologize

B. Sometimes, but they often shift blame onto others

C. No, they never take responsibility for their mistakes

D. They try, but they struggle to fully accept their mistakes

14. Do you sacrifice more of your individual freedom than they do?

A. Yes

B. Maybe

C. I feel this way sometimes

D. No, things are quite even between the two of us

15. Do you sometimes feel used by your lover?

A. All the time

B. Sometimes

C. Never thought about it this way

D. No, not at all


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