As hard as it may be, some people can be, in fact, very selfish when it comes to love. They want to win all the time, they want their ideas to prevail in the relationship, they want to be asked first when their partner wants some changes in their home, and so much more. Overall, they want to be the motor of the relationship. So, are you worried that your partner might be one of those people? Take our "Is My Partner Selfish in Our Relationship?" quiz and find out.
1. Does your lover tell you what to do all the time?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. No
D. Yes, but it's rare
2. Why do you think your lover wants to have control over the relationship so much?
A. Because they are selfish
B. Because they are cautious
C. Because they are jealous and possessive
D. They don’t want to control the relationship
3. How do they react when they see you with other people from the opposite sex?
A. They get angry
B. They get nervous
C. They seem jealous
D. They act usual
4. How often does your partner help you with tasks?
A. Rarely
B. Sometimes
C. Only when I ask them to help
D. They readily help
5. If your partner is busy with some work and you ask them to take out some time for you, they would:
A. Plainly decline
B. Ask me to wait
C. Ask me the reason first
D. Take out a few minutes for me
6. Are you otherwise happy with your lover?
A. Yes, unfortunately
B. No
C. My lover is not selfish to begin with
D. I don’t know
7. If you look visibly sad, how would your partner react?
A. They would hardly bother
B. They would probably worry but won’t say anything
C. They would ask me to cheer up
D. They would ask me what’s wrong
8. Does your partner take care of you when you’re sick?
A. No
B. Sometimes
C. Only when they have to
D. Always
9. Does your partner want to choose the places you go to all the time?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Most of the time
D. It's possible
10. Does your partner want your place to fit their tastes only?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Most of the time
11. Do you assist your partner more than they assist you?
A. Yes, too much
B. Only when they deserve it
C. No
D. Just a little bit
12. Do you feel like your relationship is more like a “one man show”?
A. Yes, definitely
B. Sometimes
C. Most of the time
D. No, never
13. Does your lover often feel like they have to speak for both of you?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. Most of the time
D. No, never
14. Do you feel overwhelmed by your lover’s behavior?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Most of the time
15. Does your lover feel angry when they don’t get their way?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Most of the time
C. No
D. Yes, but it's rare
