1. Does your spouse deliberately choose the kinds of friends who should be around you?
A. Yes
B. No
C. It's possible
D. You’ve never noticed that
2. Has your spouse ever tried to turn you against your siblings because they didn’t get along with them?
A. Yes
B. No
C. It's possible
D. You’ve got no idea
3. Does your spouse often say one thing but think something else in their mind?
A. Yes
B. No
C. It's possible
D. You don't know
4. Does your spouse control you emotionally as a way to get you on their side?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. It's possible
D. No
5. Does your spouse put all the blame on you even when they are wrong?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. It's possible
6. Does your spouse like to get too much in control of things?
A. Yes
B. No
C. It's possible
D. You’ve got no idea
7. Does your spouse make all the decisions in the couple?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, but it's rare
8. Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by your spouse’s behavior?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, but it's rare
9. Does your spouse speak for you without your consent?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. They rarely do so
10. Does your spouse make a scene to convince you, everytime they don’t get their way?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. It depends on what is at stake
