Everyone is looking for love, admiration and a little bit of help and emotional help from time to time. But a controlling spouse is something else. They first show their devotion and give too much, which should be suspicious, but at the same time, it makes us feel special, so we are grateful for all the attention in the beginning. But it becomes alarming when the person wants to take over everything that makes up your existence and to top it all, this person happens to be your spouse. So, is your spouse controlling? Take our quiz and find out now.
1. Does your spouse deliberately choose the kinds of friends who should be around you?
A. Yes
B. No
C. It's possible
D. You’ve never noticed that
2. Has your spouse ever tried to turn you against your siblings because they didn’t get along with them?
A. Yes
B. No
C. It's possible
D. You’ve got no idea
3. Does your spouse often say one thing but think something else in their mind?
A. Yes
B. No
C. It's possible
D. You don't know
4. Does your spouse control you emotionally as a way to get you on their side?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. It's possible
D. No
5. Does your spouse put all the blame on you even when they are wrong?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. It's possible
6. Does your spouse like to get too much in control of things?
A. Yes
B. No
C. It's possible
D. You’ve got no idea
7. Does your spouse make you feel like you are doing everything wrong?
A. Yes, all the time
B. No, they feel they are wrong most of the time
C. Not at all
D. Not all the time. They provide constructive feedback
8. Do they make backhanded compliments?
A. Yes
B. No, but they often point out their own faults
C. Not at all
D. Yes, but they do so because they don’t want me to be embarrassed in front of others
9. Do you walk on eggshells around your friends and family fearing they might humiliate you?
A. Most of the time
B. Only sometimes
C. Never
D. Not really
10. Do they always correct everything you say or do?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. No
D. Rarely
11. Do they call you names?
A. Often
B. Only once or twice
C. Never
D. No, they are just loud
12. Does your spouse make all the decisions in the couple?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, but it's rare
13. Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by your spouse’s behavior?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, but it's rare
14. Does your spouse speak for you without your consent?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. They rarely do so
15. Does your spouse make a scene to convince you everytime they don’t get their way?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. It depends on what is at stake
