1. Does your spouse make all the decisions in the couple?
2. Do you sometimes feel overwhelmed by your spouse’s behavior?
3. Does your spouse speak for you without your consent?
4. Does your spouse make a scene to convince you everytime they don’t get their way?
5. Does your spouse deliberately choose the kinds of friends who should be around you?
6. Has your spouse ever tried to turn you against your siblings because they didn’t get along with them?
7. Does your spouse often say one thing but think something else in their mind?
8. Does your spouse control you emotionally as a way to get you on their side?
9. Does your spouse put all the blame on you even when they are wrong?
10. Does your spouse like to get too much in control of things?
11. Does your spouse make you feel like you are doing everything wrong?
12. Do they make backhanded compliments?
13. Do you walk on eggshells around your friends and family fearing they might humiliate you?
14. Do they always correct everything you say or do?
15. Do they call you names?