Controlling husbands are a problem because they can stop their spouses from doing a lot of things that could make them more independent. They often use their financial strength to ascertain emotional control over you, because it makes them feel good about themself when you look weak and helpless. rnControlling husbands would be the ones preventing their wives from working, from having a social life, and from making simple decisions in their lives. rnSo, do you think you have a controlling husband? Take our quiz and find out now.
1. Does your husband decide who you should be around?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, but for good reasons
2. Does your husband decide on the types of jobs you should have?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Only so that I don’t regret it later
3. Do you find yourself giving in to your husband’s demands to calm him down?
A. Yes, all the times
B. Sometimes
C. Rarely
D. No, never
4. Does your husband gets upset when you speak your mind?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. It’s possible
5. Does your husband abuse you when you speak your mind?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. It happens when I say something wrong
6. Does your husband mock you when you speak your mind?
A. Yes, all the time
B. Sometimes
C. No, never
D. Only when I say dumb things
7. Does your husband reject your suggestions, making them look dumb?
A. Yes, all the time
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, but it's rare
8. Have you lost out on friends since being in love with your husband?
A. Yes, many of them
B. Yes, a few friends
C. One or two
D. No, never
9. Do they make you feel guilty over the smallest things?
A. Yes
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Rarely
D. No, never
10. Is your husband very critical of you in general?
A. Yes, all the time
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, but it's rare
11. Do you find them snooping, eavesdropping or spying on you?
A. Yes, all the times
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Rarely
D. No, never
12. How does he react when you try to spend some time alone?
A. He gets furious and frustrated
B. He gets insecure and gets passive-aggressive
C. He does not understand it but is okay with it
D. He understands the need for me to be alone sometimes
13. Does your husband compare you to other women, pretending that he does so to help you improve yourself?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. He has not done it yet
14. Do you feel like an outsider when you are around your husband’s friends?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. Not yet
15. Is your husband the wealthy one in the relationship?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Yes, but I don’t complain because I make money too
D. Yes, but it doesn’t bother you at all
