What’s Your True Capacity For Commitment Quiz

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10 Questions | Updated: Jul 17, 2025

1. When someone starts talking about long-term plans that include you, you:


Get excited and start dreaming about the future together
Feel a little nervous but try to stay open
Change the subject or joke to lighten the mood
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2. What first name or nickname would you like us to use?

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3. How do you typically feel when a relationship starts getting serious?


Secure and happy—it’s what you want
A bit overwhelmed but willing to see where it goes
Trapped and looking for an exit

4. Your ideal weekend with a partner involves:


Spending quality time together—maybe planning a future trip
A mix of time together and time for yourself
Doing your own thing and catching up when convenient

5. When faced with challenges in a relationship, your instinct is to:


Communicate and work through them
See how things go and hope they improve naturally
Distance yourself and reevaluate the relationship

6. You’ve been offered a long-term project at work. You:


Jump at the opportunity—it’s a chance to prove your dedication
Hesitate, then accept it with a few caveats
Decline—you prefer short-term or flexible commitments

7. The idea of settling down with one person forever makes you feel:


Fulfilled and at peace
Curious but unsure
Anxious or restless

8. When someone depends on you emotionally, you:


Try your best to be there, even during tough times
Offer support, but need breaks to recharge
Feel drained and try to create boundaries

9. How do you usually handle routine and stability in your life?


You thrive on it—it gives you a sense of purpose
You tolerate it but occasionally crave change
You resist it—it makes you feel confined

10. In your past relationships, how long did they usually last?


Several years or more—I invest for the long haul
A few months to a year—depends on how things feel
A few weeks—I tend to lose interest quickly

11. If your partner asked you to move in together, you would:


Say yes—you're ready for the next step
Ask for time to think about it
Suggest keeping things as they are
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