Are You Loving Or Just Avoiding Loneliness Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 69 | Updated: Aug 05, 2025

1. When you’re not in a relationship, how do you generally feel?


Lonely and incomplete
Fine, but I prefer having someone around
Content and focused on personal growth
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2. What first name or nickname would you like us to use?

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3. Do you stay in relationships even when they don’t feel fulfilling?


Yes, because being alone is worse
Sometimes, hoping things will improve
No, I value emotional health over comfort

4. When you picture your ideal partner, what’s the strongest appeal?


They’ll always be there for me
We’ll do life together and support each other
They’ll challenge me to be my best self

5. What’s your biggest fear in love?


Being abandoned or left alone
Being hurt or betrayed
Losing my individuality

6. When things get tough in your relationship, how do you usually react?


Panic and cling more tightly
Try to talk it through, but avoid deep conflict
Face it directly and discuss things openly

7. How much do you rely on your partner for emotional support?


Almost entirely; they’re my main source of comfort
A fair amount, but I also have other support systems
I value their support but also cope well on my own

8. How often do you make compromises to avoid being alone?


Frequently, even when it goes against my needs
Sometimes, if it feels necessary
Rarely; I believe mutual respect matters

9. Do you know what truly makes you happy outside of relationships?


Not really; love is my main focus
Sort of; I have hobbies but prioritize relationships
Yes; I find happiness in multiple areas of life

10. Do you enter relationships quickly after a breakup?


Almost always; I can't stand being single
Occasionally, if someone makes me feel wanted
No; I give myself time to heal and reflect

11. How would you feel about being single for the next year?


Terrified and depressed
Uncertain but open to it
Peaceful and excited for growth
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