Who doesn’t love being in love? It is probably one of the most wonderful feelings in the world when you love someone and they love you back. That is why we spend so much of our lives searching for it and then trying to hold onto it when we do find it.
However, there is definitely a clear line between being in love with someone and being too attached to someone. When it crosses that line, it could turn a healthy relationship into an unhealthy one and affect other areas of your life. Your partner is supposed to be your other half figuratively, not literally!
Are you and your guy attached at the hip? Take this quiz for the truth.
1. Do you have the same relationship with your friends and family that you had prior to your relationship?
A. Yes, definitely
B. No, we are not nearly as close as we used to be
C. For the most part
2. Do you see your friends as much as you used to and spend time with them without your guy around?
A. Not really, we always spend time with our friends together
B. Sometimes
C. Yes, there is a good balance
3. If one of you wants to spend time alone with their friends, does oit cause problems?
A. No, not at all. We always give ourselves time to do that
B. Sometimes
C. Yes, it is always an argument
4. Have you gotten into arguments with friends/family over your guy always needing to be with you and them not getting to have any alone time with you?
A. Sometimes
B. Yes, many times
C. No, not at all
5. Do you have the same hobbies and interests as you used to?
A. Not really, we have different ones now
B. Some are the same, I just don’t do them as often as I used to
C. Yes i do
6. If you are not together, do you feel like you constantly have to check in with your partner?
A. No, not at all
B. Yes I do
C. Sometimes
7. Do you ever feel like your guy is smothering you or that you have no alone time?
A. Sometimes
B. No, never
C. Yes
8. Do you find yourself hiding how you truly feel or holding back on your opinions out of fear that your partner will get mad or feel differently about you?
A. Not often, but a few times I have felt that way
B. Yes, I do
C. No, never
9. Does every argument with your partner make you feel devastated?
A. Most of the time it does
B. Sometimes
C. No, not at all
10. Do you ever feel like you have lost your old self and are a new person now that you are in this relationship?
A. Not really/I don’t know
B. No, never
C. Yes, sometimes
