1. Do you still find him attractive?
2. Do you still find yourself missing him often?
3. Is he still the first person you think of calling when you have exciting news, have a bad day, or just need someone to talk to?
4. Do you still replay conversions or arguments you had with him in your head and get emotional?
5. Do you still have a desire to try to work things out with him?
6. Do you still picture him in your life when you think about your future?
7. Do you still compare every other guy you meet to him, and they never seem to measure up?
8. Do you still frequently check his social media accounts to see what he’s doing and who he is hanging out with, or post specific things that you want him to see?
9. Are your friends and family sick of hearing you still talk about him?
10. Do you still hold onto things he gave you as a gift or keepsakes from your relationship that you can’t let go of?
11. Do you feel relieved or at peace when you spend time away from him?
12. When you think about dating someone else, how do you feel?
13. When people mention him, how do you react?
14. Are you actively trying to avoid places or events where you might run into him?
15. Do you find yourself imagining how things could have been different if you had made other choices?