Am I Smart In My Relationship Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 21 | Updated: Jun 09, 2025
1. When your partner expresses a concern, how do you usually respond?

I get defensive or shut down
I listen carefully and try to understand
I think about underlying issues and how to solve together
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2. How do you handle disagreements with your partner?

I avoid conflict or give in to keep peace
I openly communicate and seek compromise
I analyze and find a fair solution
3. When your partner needs emotional support, what’s your approach?

I struggle to offer support, ignore needs
I offer empathy and reassurance
I try to understand emotions deeply and help cope
4. How often do you reflect on your own behavior to improve relationship?

Rarely, usually blame partner
Sometimes try to learn from mistakes
Regularly seek self-awareness and growth
5. How do you show appreciation and love to your partner?

I don’t often express it openly
I express it with words and small gestures
I tailor my actions to what matters most to them
6. When your relationship faces a challenge, what’s your mindset?

I feel overwhelmed, unsure how to cope
I stay hopeful and work through it
I analyze and develop a constructive plan
7. How do you handle feedback or criticism from your partner?

I take it personally and get upset (P1)
I listen and try to understand
I evaluate thoughtfully and make changes
8. When planning your future together, how involved are you?

I avoid thinking about or making plans (P1)
I discuss goals and dreams openly
I create clear, actionable plans together
9. How do you manage jealousy or insecurity in your relationship?

I feel jealous and react impulsively (P1)
I talk about feelings honestly
I reflect on triggers and work on trust (P3)
10. How well do you balance your personal needs with your partner’s?

I often prioritize myself or partner too much
I try to find a healthy middle ground
I work consciously to maintain balanced respect (P3)
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