Do you feel bothered by your partner’s habits and try to change them as a result?

Yes, I believe that I can transform them

Maybe, I find myself doing that for their actions

No, they are the only ones who can transform themselves

Do you talk about the critical decisions in the relationship?

No, they tend to make them themselves

Sometimes, but it doesn’t always happen

Yes, we always make these decisions together

Do you constantly feel like you’re missing out on something outside the relationship?

No, I’m satisfied with what I have

Do you fear being alone?

No, I’m rather comfortable being by myself

Do you feel you’re constantly convincing other people that you’re in a happy relationship?

No, I don’t need to do that

Do you catch yourself comparing your relationship to others?

No, I’m satisfied with what I have

Do you feel your enthusiasm for the relationship declining?

Yes, and it’s been like this for a while

Sometimes, but then it seems to emerge again

No, I’m always happy and excited about it

How comfortable are you putting up with deal breakers?

I’ve said to myself that I’m not, but I seem to stay in the relationship despite that

I put up with some of the things, but others can make me leave the relationship

If I find out about something unacceptable, I’m comfortable enough to leave the relationship

Does your relationship help you grow as a person?

No, I feel like it brings out the worst in me

Kind of, it brings out the best and worst in me

Yes, it makes me want to be a better version of myself

Am I Settling in My Relationship Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 2708 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022

Many couples enter a relationship with hope and excitement. However, this can sometimes fade away with time and make way for a feeling of being stuck. You may currently experience this and wonder, “Am I settling in my relationship?”rnIn its essence, settling in a partnership means accepting less than what you deserve in love. Consequently, you put up with things that you normally wouldn’t consider right for you and your self-growth. There are a few other signs that you may be settling in a relationship, so you can take the quiz and find out.