1. When you got together with your partner, were there any external circumstances pressuring you?
2. Do you feel bothered by your partner’s habits and try to change them as a result?
3. Do you talk about the critical decisions in the relationship?
4. Do you constantly feel like you’re missing out on something outside the relationship?
5. Do you fear being alone?
6. Do you feel you’re constantly convincing other people that you’re in a happy relationship?
7. Do you catch yourself comparing your relationship to others?
8. Do you feel your enthusiasm for the relationship declining?
9. How comfortable are you putting up with deal breakers?
10. Does your relationship help you grow as a person?