Am I Scared Of Intimacy Quiz

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 13502 | Updated: Aug 07, 2024
1. How comfortable are you with expressing your feelings to your partner?

I find it extremely difficult and often keep my emotions to myself
I can share my feelings sometimes, but it's challenging
I am comfortable expressing my emotions openly
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Are you finding it challenging to connect intimately in your relationship? Do trust issues or difficulty in expressing your emotions create barriers between you and your partner? The "Am I scared of intimacy?" quiz is designed to help you uncover t... see more
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2. How do you react when your partner tries to get closer to you emotionally?

I feel anxious and tend to pull away
I feel a bit uncomfortable but try to engage
I welcome the closeness and feel comfortable
3. How do you handle conflicts in your relationship?

I avoid discussing issues and hope they resolve on their own
I bring up issues reluctantly and only when necessary
I address conflicts openly and work towards resolution
4. What is your approach to physical intimacy with your partner?

I often feel uncomfortable or anxious about physical closeness
I enjoy physical intimacy but sometimes feel hesitant
I am comfortable and enjoy physical intimacy
5. How often do you find yourself doubting your partner's feelings for you?

Frequently, I constantly need reassurance
Sometimes, but I try to trust my partner
Rarely, I feel secure in my partner's feelings
6. When thinking about long-term commitment, how do you feel?

The idea of a long-term commitment makes me very anxious
I have some concerns but am open to it
I feel positive and excited about the idea of long-term commitment
7. How do you perceive your need for personal space in a relationship?

I need a lot of personal space and feel overwhelmed if I don't get it
I need some personal space but try to balance it with closeness
I enjoy spending most of my time with my partner
8. How do you handle emotional intimacy in conversations with your partner?

I avoid deep emotional conversations and keep things surface-level
I participate in emotional conversations but find it draining
I engage in and enjoy deep emotional conversations
9. How often do you reflect on your past relationships to understand your intimacy patterns?

Rarely, I prefer not to think about past relationships
Sometimes, but I find it difficult to gain insights
Often, I actively reflect to understand and improve
10. How do you react when your partner expresses vulnerability or asks for emotional support?

I feel uncomfortable and unsure how to respond
I try to offer support but feel awkward
I provide support and feel comfortable doing so
11. How comfortable are you with sharing your past experiences and personal history with your partner?

I find it very difficult to talk about my past
I share some things but keep many details private
I am open about my past and share freely
12. When you think about being emotionally dependent on your partner, how do you feel?

It makes me feel very anxious and vulnerable
I have some reservations, but try to be open
I feel comfortable and secure with emotional dependence
13. How often do you initiate conversations about your relationship's emotional and physical intimacy?

Rarely, I avoid these conversations
Occasionally, but I find them difficult
Often, I believe they are important for the relationship
14. How do you feel about being physically affectionate in public?

I feel very uncomfortable and avoid it
I am okay with it sometimes, but I prefer privacy
I am comfortable and enjoy being affectionate in public
15. How do you respond to vulnerability in your partner?

I feel uncomfortable and unsure how to react
I try to support them but find it challenging
I am supportive and comfortable with their vulnerability
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