Narcissists as we all know them, are very confident and perhaps, too confident about themselves. The problem is when you befriend one, or worse, when you marry one, their behavior or beliefs can become toxic to the relationship or your emotional health. So, do you think you are married to a narcissist? Take our ‘Am I married to a narcissist quiz’ and find out.
1. Do you still love your partner? why?
A. Yes, because he/she is an amazing person
B. Yes, because he/she is all you've got
C. No, because you are fed up with him/her
D. No, because you feel erased around him/her
2. Do you think your relationship has a chance despite his/her behavior?
A. Yes
B. Yes, but he/she has to change
C. No
D. No, not with this attitude
3. Does you partner think he/she is the center of the world?
A. Yes, and it's sickening
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Only because people make him/her feel this way
D. No, not at all
4. Does your partner flirt with other people in front of you?
A. Yes, all the time
B. He/she flirts but not in front of you
C. Yes, sometimes, but it's just to get back at you
D. No, he/she would never do this
5. Do you have doubts about your partner's feelings for you? Why?
A. Yes, because they are too focused on themself
B. Yes, because they never tell you how much they love you
C. No, because they prove they care
D. No, because they are an amazing person
6. Does your partner try to isolate you from friends and family?
A. Yes
B. Sometimes
C. Never
D. A few times
7. Do you feel dominated by your partner?
A. Yes
Always
B. Sometimes
C. Never
D. Yes
8. Does your partner lack empathy?
A. Yes
Always
B. Sometimes
C. Never
D. Absolutely
9. Has your partner ever been physically abusive?
A. Yes
Always
B. No
C. Never
D. I am scared they might be
10. Is their attitude towards everything - “my way or the highway?”
A. Always
B. No
C. Never
D. Yes
11. What do you wish your partner could do less?
A. Look at him/herself in the mirror
B. Praise him/herself too much
C. Talk about him/herself all the time
D. He/she is perfect
12. Does your partner know he/she is a narcissist?
A. Yes
B. No, but you can't wait to break it down to him/her
C. Yes, but he/she is in denial
D. No, you doubt it
13. Do you feel like your partner respects you?
A. Yes, of course
B. You have no doubts about it
C. No, not at all
D. No, he/she is just a horrible person
14. Do you feel like you connect well with your partner?
A. Yes, of course
B. Sometimes
C. Only when you have the energy to deal with them
D. No, not at all
15. What do you wish your partner could do more?
A. Tell you how much he/she cares about you
B. Talk about others in a positive way
C. Water the plants
D. Workout
