1. If your child is a short walking distance from a friend’s house and they are going over to play, what would you do?
2. If your child is going to a drop-off birthday party for a friend, what do you do?
3. If your child is out with friends or away at college, how often do you check in with them?
4. Do you do your child’s school work?
5. Does your child have chores around the house?
6. Do you get overly cautious about risky activities that every child engages in, such as climbing a tree, playing sports, or riding their bike?
7. Are you afraid to let your child fail?
8. If your child is doing a task or a project and they aren’t doing it right, do you tend to take it over to make sure they are doing it the right way?
9. As a toddler, were you a parent who didn’t let your child leave your sight and constantly direct their behavior?
10. Would you tell a coach they are doing a bad job for not allowing your child enough playtime, call a teacher about a bad grade, or control your child’s eating and exercise habits?