1. Is your partner ready to commit to your relationship?
A. Absolutely
B. Mostly yes
C. Not really
D. Not at all
2. Do you have any issues in the bedroom?
A. No, we're doing great
B. Not really
C. Yes, sometimes
D. Yes, serious issues
3. Do you ever have a feeling in your gut that something is wrong?
A. Never
B. Rarely
C. Sometimes
D. Often
4. Does your partner ever compare you to their ex?
A. Never
B. Rarely
C. Sometimes
D. Often
5. Does your partner research their ex online?
A. Never
B. Rarely
C. Occasionally
D. Often
6. You ask your partner about their past relationships. What is their reaction?
A. They talk about it a bit, without looking troubled
B. They talk about it and seem sad about some of their past experiences
C. They talk about it a bit more than I had expected
D. They get emotional and refuse to talk about it
7. Your partner receives a call from one of their exes. How do they react?
A. They answer and talk as if nothing had happened
B. They ignore the call
C. They answer and get emotional
D. They answer the call in private, hoping I don't notice anything
8. Has your partner mistaken your name by their ex?
A. Never
B. Just once
C. Occasionally
D. Often
9. How often does your partner talk about their ex?
A. Rarely or never
B. Occasionally
C. Often
D. Very often and his or her friends and family do the same
10. Does your partner keep things that remind them of their ex?
A. No
B. One or two items
C. Yes, several items
D. Yes, lots of them
