Usually, it is seen, that men are the one who takes up the role of doing romantic things in a relationship. From arranging romantic candlelight dinners to surprise tickets to their lover’s favorite band concert or maybe even treating their wife by cooking a delicious dinner when she comes home after a long day at work. All of such steps are usually taken by men by going out of their way just for a sweet smile on their beloved’s face.
However, men enjoy and appreciate romance just as much as women although the way the two define romance is quite different. Sometimes, in order to please your husband, you might have to sacrifice your own needs.
You need to understand his likes and dislikes and accept that his idea of romance is going to be far different from that of yours because it is obvious that selfishness and romance do not go well together at all. To juice up your relationship and keep the spark between you and your husband everlasting, the following few ways to romance your husband can be of great help.
1. Let him know what you love about him
Knowing how to use words can actually turn things up greatly. We all enjoy being told that we are loved, and somebody cares for us. Your husband is no different. As a wife, you must remind him of all the things you like about him to make him feel appreciated and affirmed. This can be anything such as maybe telling him how much you love his sense of humor or maybe how much you admire him being so driven with his career or that you feel extremely safe next to him.
Compliment him, tell him you like his new haircut or that new shirt he just bought or maybe even tell him that he is one of the best cooks you’ve ever seen! It could be anything, mix up the words but whatever you say, say it with sincerity and make genuine compliments a part of each day.
2. Have frequent date nights
Many couples forget about dating once they are married. Both of you return to your daily work life and get busy with parenthood if you have a child, thus leaving you to reminisce the times the two of you spent out, doing whatever while enjoying each other’s company. Date nights are important to rekindle the flame in your relationship. Go out for a fancy dinner or go see a show, be it anything as long as it is just you two. Talk about each other or gossip and divert all your attention to each other just like you did before marriage.
3. Flirt in secret
This is one of the best ways to romance your husband. It is both fun and naughty. Flirting comes naturally to some people, and many couples are too sure to have flirted a lot before getting married. Even after marriage when life changes, flirting can be of great help to spice things up between you and your husband such as send him a saucy text at work during the middle of the day or slip a love note in his briefcase before he leaves the house.
Lean over close to him and whisper sweet nothings into his ear when out in public or write something exclusively for him on a napkin when out for dinner. This will be a surprise for him and will surely make his day.
4. Be more touchy and feely
It has been proven that men are motivated by sight and touch rather than building a relationship by talking and spending time with women. Being touchy makes him feel desired by you sexually while your response to his sexuality makes him feel affirmed. By touching him, it doesn’t entirely mean sex.
You can spark romance between the two of you by simply holding his hand when out in public such as when taking a walk in the park, shopping in the mall, etc. Slide your arm around him or give him a sweet peck on the cheek every now and then. This way not only will you be able to express your love but claim him as yours. Such gestures will bring both of you closer and increase intimacy between the two of you.
With these ways, you can make your husband feel loved and romance him. No matter how many years you have been married, it is important that both of you fall in love again and again with each other. Both of you need to feel loved and appreciated and with the methods mentioned above, you can maintain the sparkle in your relationship.