Whether you are a newly married wife or a long time veteran, married life can surely put some pressure on you to keep things fresh and keep your husband sexually satisfied.
After all, that’s the secret to a healthy and happy marriage, right? (at least it’s one of them!).
No matter what stage of marriage you are in, if you are looking for new and awesome ways to make your husband feel good and sexually satisfied, we’ve got you covered. We’re sharing some ways (both conventional and unconventional) to answer your question, “How to keep my Husband Sexually Satisfied?”
1. Compliment him
Sex is predominantly a physical act, but you can still satisfy your husband by using your words. Do something you might not have done in a while like compliment him, especially on his body, capabilities, or sexual prowess.
Your words of affirmation and encouragement will pull some strings inside him for sure.
2. Touch him
Touch is extremely powerful. Where words fail, use your sense of touch, and you’ll be sure to keep your husband sexually satisfied if you come at him from all angles – literally!
To some males, touching is the only way to go.
Take things a step further by learning about the erogenous zones of your husband and satisfying ways to touch them, and you’ll hit the sweet spot in more ways than one.
You can touch many parts of his body that would surely send him in a whirlwind of sensations and make him feel desired is a guaranteed way to keep any husband sexually satisfied.
Making love to your husband should never, ever, EVER become a chore. Once you treat it as such, it will remain like that for a very long time.
Sex is a gift. It is meant to be shared between you and your husband. It allows you to see what heaven is like (at least that’s what some people say).
You married your husband for a reason, and therefore, there is also no reason for you not to smile when you are with him and when you make love.
When you smile, it signals to your husband that you are enjoying precious time with him and that there is no other place in the world you would rather be than cradled in his arms.
When he feels that you’re enjoying him, you’ll surely be keeping your husband sexually satisfied, and he probably won’t even realize why!
Might we suggest a quickie before both of you leave for work?
If you are the couple who both have early starts in the morning and whose only time to spend with each other is after work, then a quickie might do the trick. A quickie in the morning will set you both off towards a good day and keep things lively in the bedroom.
It’s a proven fact that couples who have sex in the morning are more productive at work and less stressed!
You’re not only helping your husband feel satisfied sexually, but you’re also helping you both feel good for the rest of the day.
And what happened as a quickie in the morning might become a full-blown intimate, sexy time with your husband during the night.
We say it’s a win for the both of you!
6. Let him lead the way
There’s an innate sense of needing to be the hero or ‘the leader’ inside every man.
So why not touch on this aspect tonight?
Become his leading lady but let him lead the way. It can be sexually satisfying for a husband to bring his woman to orgasm in a way that he only knows how to.
This tip can also be applied outside of the bedroom. When you let your husband lead the way, it promotes a good sense of well-being inside of him and shows how much you trust him. In turn, it shows how much you respect him being the man of the house.
Just make sure that you reverse roles occasionally, too, to keep things balanced!
7. Make time for ‘Loving’
You need to make time for ‘loving.’ Whether you’re both busy or tired, you should treat your time for intimacy as sacred.
Remember when you first got married? You probably did not go a week without having sex daily.
If you are both busy, make time to make love, even if it’s just a quickie as advised above (don’t forget that sex makes you both relaxed and sleepy. So, if there’s no time in the morning, make a bit of space for it in the evening).
In the video below, coach Natalie shares tips for women to handle dating a mega busy man.
Put it on your calendars and when you do, make sure there aren’t distractions that will take this time away from the both of you. Make your husband’s sexual needs a priority, and he’ll make sure that you are at the top of his agenda for sure!
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Sylvia Smith loves to share insights on how couples can revitalize their love lives in and out of the bedroom. As a writer at Marriage.com, she is a big believer in living consciously and encourages couples to adopt this principle in their lives too. Sylvia believes that every couple can transform their relationship into a happier, healthier one by taking purposeful and wholehearted action.