1. Is this the first time your wife cheated on you?
A. As far as I am aware
C. I’m really not sure
D. No, this has happened before
2. Has your wife explained the root cause of how/why it happened?
A. Yes, but I am not fully convinced
C. No, she hasn’t explained anything to me when I’ve asked questions
D. Not really, she mainly just made excuses
3. Do you believe your wife is truly remorseful for what has happened?
A. Yes, but I need more time to trust her
B. Yes, she truly is remorseful for her actions
C. No, I do not
D. I am not sure
4. Has your wife genuinely apologized?
A. I believe she has been sincere in her apology.
B. I 100% feel she was sincere and completely honest about everything that happened
D. She has apologized, but I don’t believe it was genuine or sincere
5. Has your wife cut off all communication with this person?
A. We didn’t discuss that yet
B. Yes, she has
C. I am not sure; she hasn’t been willing to discuss it much
D. She says yes, but I don’t believe her
6. Do you feel like you could learn to trust your spouse again truly?
A. I hope so, but I am not sure
B. It will be a lot of work, but I think we can do it
C. I am not sure, and she is not helping by not even apologizing for it
D. I really don’t think I can this time
7. Is your wife willing to attend counseling both individually and with you?
A. I am not sure; we haven’t discussed it
B. Yes, she is
C. Not right now
D. She says she is, but we have done this before
8. Will you be able to let this go and not continue to hold it over her head or let it haunt your mind and heart forever?
A. I hope so
B. I believe that I can
C. I am not sure
D. I don’t think that I can
9. Will your family and friends support you in trying to reconcile your marriage?
A. I haven’t discussed it with them yet
B. Yes, they support me through whatever my decision is
C. I am not sure. They are frustrated because of how she is behaving.
D. I don’t think anyone will support me staying with her after this happened again
10. Do you think your marriage is worth saving?
A. I still think it is
B. Yes, I definitely do
C. I am not sure
D. Honestly, I don’t think it is anymore