1. Is this the first time that your wife has cheated on you?
2. Has your wife explained the root cause of the affair?
3. Do you believe your wife is truly remorseful about what has happened?
4. Has your wife genuinely apologized?
5. Has your wife cut off all communication with this person?
6. Do you feel like you could truly learn to trust your spouse again?
7. Is your wife willing to attend counseling, both individually and with you?
8. Will you be able to let this go and stop it from haunting your mind and heart forever?
9. Do your family and friends support you in trying to reconcile your marriage?
10. Do you think your marriage is worth saving?
11. Has your partner cheated in their previous relationships?
12. How did you learn about your partner’s infidelity?
13. Is she still secretive about her plans and actions?
14. Does she blame you for her infidelity?
15. Does she avoid spending time with you?