1. Which of these is a frequent argument you have in your relationship?
2. Has there ever been infidelity in your relationship?
3. Are there trust issues in your relationship?
4. Do you feel like you and your partner communicate effectively?
5. Are you happy in your relationship?
6. Do you feel that you have the same fights repeatedly with your partner?
7. Do your fights seem to be a series of small fights that create animosity or big blow-outs?
8. How do your fights usually end?
9. Do either of you feel inadequate or unimportant in your relationship?
10. Was there a specific event that might have been the start of the constant fighting?
11. How long have you been together?
12. How often do you argue with your partner?
13. What’s usually your first reaction to an argument?
14. What do you do after an argument?
15. Have you ever considered taking marriage or couples counseling?