What Is Your Relationship Pattern Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 1093 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022
1. If you asked your friends the role you play in your relationships with them, what would they say?

You are always the one trying to make your friends better and helping to inspire them
You are always the one in charge of making plans
You are always making sure everyone is taken care of, sort of like the mom or dad of the group
You are supportive of everything they do
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What Is Your Relationship Pattern Quiz
Most people fall under certain patterns when choosing relationships, and they might not even realize it. A relationship pattern is simply repeating the same behaviors over and over again each time a new person comes into your life. Sometimes these pa... see more
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2. If your friends could pick one negative thing about you, what would they say?

You are always doing for others and don’t expect the same in return
You are bossy/always in charge
You are critical of their poor decisions/bad behavior
You are jealous at times
3. What would you say was your role in your past relationships?

The fixer
The decision-maker
The mother/father
The pleaser
4. Why would you say your last relationship failed?

They said I was always trying to make them change, and they didn’t want to change.
They said I was too controlling.
They felt I was constantly nagging them and treating them like a child.
I think we both just needed space from each other. We jumped into things way too fast and had no lives outside of each other.
5. What were the good things about your past relationships that your partner enjoyed about you?

I always supported them and tried to make them a better person
I was always trying to make it work and putting in 100%
I always made sure they had everything they needed and took care of them
I gave up so much to be with them and would have done anything to make it work
6. Do you feel more comfortable having control in a relationship?

Not really
Yes, always
The majority of the time
No
7. Do you tend to end up with partners you have to “fix”?

Yes
No
Sometimes
Rarely
8. Do you tend to take a long time to get comfortable with a person?

Sometimes
Yes
Rarely
No, not at all
9. Have you ever lost contact with your friends/family for periods because of a relationship you were in?

Rarely
No
Sometimes
Yes
10. Did you ever feel like the person you were dating was more like your child than your partner?

Sometimes
No
Yes, always
Rarely
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