1. First of all, would this really be only a second chance?
2. Did she apologize?
3. Does she understand why what she did was wrong and how it hurt you?
4. Does she seem committed to making it work?
5. Has she actually done something that makes you think she has changed?
6. Was what she did really bad?
7. Do you think you can trust her?
8. Does she respect you?
9. Would you give her a second chance just because you miss her?
10. Would you give her a second chance out of fear?
11. How does the thought of not being with her make you feel?
12. Have you both grown individually since the issue occurred?
13. Is there mutual willingness to seek professional help if needed?
14. How have your friends and family reacted to the idea of you giving her a second chance?
15. Looking forward, what are your expectations for the relationship if you give it another chance?