1. Do you feel pain and sadness when you think about it?
2. Has breaking up made you more productive?
3. Are you optimistic about your future?
4. Do you enjoy doing things without them ?
5. Do you compare your ex with others?
6. Is your relationship with other people/ family deepening more than before?
7. Are you learning things about yourself that you know you would have never learned if you were still with them?
8. Did you lose yourself in the process ? rn
9. Was your partner putting the effort into changing ?
10. What was the feeling after the break up?