Some guys come into our lives to explore our fun, adventurous side, while some guys teach us a lesson we never forget, and then there are some guys who are the real deal that we fall in love with and get our happily ever after.
So, how do you know which guy is the perfect one to date? It’s really hard to tell, but the subtle signs are likely there. If you are trying to figure out if you should date the new guy in your life or a guy who's been in your life for a long time, take this short and exciting quiz, 'Should I date him?' and find some cues for your dating game.
1. Does he communicate well and listen to you?
A. Yes, he's a great listener, and we communicate openly
B. Sometimes, but there's room for improvement
C. Not really; he doesn't seem interested in what I have to say
D. It's too early to tell
2. How does he handle conflicts or disagreements?
A. He's understanding, and we resolve conflicts peacefully
B. He can get defensive but tries to work it out
C. He gets angry easily and doesn't want to talk things through
D. We haven't encountered any conflicts yet
3. Does he support your goals and aspirations?
A. Yes, he encourages and supports me in my endeavors
B. He's aware of them but doesn't show much interest
C. No, he dismisses them or doesn't take them seriously
D. We haven't talked about our goals yet
4. How do you feel when you're with him?
A. I feel happy and at ease
B. I feel okay, but something feels off sometimes
C. I feel uneasy or uncomfortable
D. I'm not sure yet; need more time to gauge my feelings
5. Are you both willing to make compromises for each other?
A. Yes, we understand the importance of compromising
B. We try, but sometimes it's a struggle
C. No, he's not willing to meet me halfway
D. It's too early to know
6. Do you have the same goals and values?
A. Yes
B. For the most part
C. Not sure yet
D. Not really
7. Does he make you feel special and like he values you?
A. So far, yes, but it’s still new
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, always
8. Does he have good manners?
A. Sometimes
B. Always
C. He can be arrogant
D. Most of the time
9. Does he treat the people in his life well (i.e., friends, parents, siblings, etc.)
A. Yes, he’s very caring and kind
B. I don’t know anyone in his life yet
C. He doesn’t have good relationships with his family and his friends just party together
D. Most of the time
10. Is he driven and successful?
A. I am not sure
B. I believe so
C. I don't think so
D. Yes
11. Do you have a good time together?
A. Not really
B. So far, but we’ve only hung out a few times
C. Yes, we mostly do
D. Yes, we always do
12. Does he have ALL of the qualities you look for in a guy?
A. Yes, he really does
B. Some of them
C. Yes, most of them
D. Yes, I think so from what I know of him so far
13. Do you have any conflicting interests?
A. Yes, but we have some of the same interests as well
B. No, we actually are extremely similar
C. I don’t think so
D. Only a few, but nothing major
14. Is he an honest and genuine person?
A. It’s hard to trust him sometimes
B. Definitely
C. I think so
D. Most of the time
15. Do you think he’s perfect for you, or are there any red flags?
A. Definitely some red flags, but I think I want to date him
B. Minor red flags, nothing that would make me not want to date him
C. I haven’t noticed any red flags yet, but it’s still early
D. I honestly think he’s perfect for me
