Some guys come into our lives to explore our fun, adventurous side, some guys teach us a lesson we will never forget (usually by hurting us in some way), and some guys are the real deal that we fall in love with and live happily ever after. Well, and thousands of other kinds of guys in between!rnHow do you know which guy is which before you get caught up in something that will hurt you or not is worth your time? It’s really hard to tell, but the subtle signs are there. You have to keep your guard up and not ignore the subtle signs that things aren’t going to work out. If you are trying to figure out if you should date the new guy in your life or a guy who's been in your life, but recently has become more of a romance option than a friend option, take this short quiz and find out if you should really be dating him or not.
1. Do you have the same goals and values?
A. Yes
B. For the most part
C. Not sure yet
D. Not really
2. Does he make you feel special and like he values you?
A. So far, yes, but it’s still new
B. Most of the time
C. Sometimes
D. Yes, always
3. Does he have good manners?
A. Sometimes
B. Always
C. He can be arrogant
D. Most of the time
4. Does he treat the people in his life well (i.e., friends, parents, siblings, etc.)
A. Yes, he’s very caring and kind
B. I don’t know anyone in his life yet
C. He doesn’t have good relationships with his family and his friends just party together
D. Most of the time
5. Is he driven and successful?
A. I am not sure
B. I believe so
C. I don't think so
D. Yes
6. Do you have a good time together?
A. Most of the time
B. So far, but we’ve only hung out a few times
C. Yes, we mostly do
D. Yes, we always do
7. Does he have ALL of the qualities you look for in a guy?
A. Yes, he really does
B. Some of them
C. Yes, most of them
D. Yes, I think so from what I know of him so far
8. Do you have any conflicting interests?
A. Yes, but we have some of the same interests as well
B. No, we actually are extremely similar
C. I don’t think so
D. Only a few, but nothing major
9. Is he an honest and genuine person?
A. It’s hard to trust him sometimes
B. Definitely
C. I think so
D. Most of the time
10. Do you think he’s perfect for you, or are there any red flags?
A. Definitely some red flags, but I think I want to date him
B. Minor red flags, nothing that would make me not want to date him
C. I haven’t noticed any red flags yet, but it’s still early
D. I honestly think he’s perfect for me
