1. Do you try to please your partner and have their needs met all the time?
2. Do you work hard to make the relationship work?
3. Are you hyper-vigilant and always looking for mistakes?
4. Are you hiding your relationship issues, even from your close friends, to preserve the perfect facade?
5. Do you maximize and overanalyze the significance of minor setbacks in your relationship?
6. Do you view conflict as a failure?
7. Do you have a lot of rules and theories on "how to be a perfect partner"?
8. After a fight, do you worry that your partner will change their mind about you or that the relationship is falling apart?
9. You fall in love with an idealized version of the other person and how you perceive them — not with who they truly are.
10. When you think about what your body looks like, what do you tend to focus on?