Is It Platonic Or Romantic Love Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 26197 | Updated: Dec 10, 2025

1. How often do you communicate with this person?


We talk almost every day
We talk occasionally when something comes up
We rarely talk
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2. What first name or nickname would you like us to use?

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3. How comfortable are you with physical closeness, like hugging or sitting close?


Comfortable in a friendly way
I get nervous, excited, or hyper-aware of them
I’m fine with it but don’t think much of it

4. How do you feel when they give attention to someone else?


I don’t mind; it feels normal
I feel jealous or bothered
I notice it but it doesn’t affect me much

5. When they compliment you, how do you react?


I appreciate it like I would from any friend
I feel flattered, excited, or a little nervous
I feel normal and don’t think too much about it

6. How do you typically feel after spending time with them?


Happy but calm, like spending time with a good friend
Energized or emotionally heightened
Neutral or unchanged

7. How do you feel when you imagine a future with this person?


I picture us as close friends sharing life experiences
I imagine a romantic future together
I’m unsure or the thought feels unclear

8. How often do you spend time together in person?


Very often, we hang out regularly
Occasionally, when we plan to meet
Rarely, we don’t see each other much

9. Have you ever had a disagreement or argument with this person?


Yes, we’ve had disagreements but we work through them
No, we usually get along without conflict
Yes, and the disagreement created distance between us

10. How important is this person to you?


They're one of the most important people in my life
They're a good friend, but not that important
Honestly, they're not very important to me

11. If this person needed help with something, what would you do?


I’d make it a priority to help them
I would offer to help if I can
I would suggest they find someone else to help them

12. How much do you know about them?


I know them almost too well
Just met them
I know them like a book!

13. It starts raining, and you have an umbrella, but they don’t. What do you do?


Ask them if they’d like to share your umbrella
Hold the umbrella for both of you and walk together
Call out to them to come share the umbrella with you

14. Do you enjoy discovering things you have in common with them?


A little
Yes
Not really

15. How do you usually feel when you’re physically close to them?


Very excited or overwhelmed
Just normal
I get a little bit excited

16. Are you trying to find and match something that they like - hobbies, foods etc.?


No, that’s not something I do
Yes
Sometimes

17. Do you ever think about whether they might have feelings for you too?


I’m not sure
Yes, definitely
I don’t really think about that

18. Do you feel butterflies in your stomach when you see them?


Yes, what a feeling!
I don't feel anything
Sometimes

19. Do you often wonder what they feel for you?


All the time
No
I’m not sure

20. If they randomly invite you to a party, what would you do?


Hang for a bit
Go have fun with them and others
Stay home

21. They are crying over a breakup, what would you do?


I would hold them and try to sympathize
I would cry with them
I’d give them the classic ‘plenty of fish in the sea’ pep talk
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