A one-sided marriage is one where you feel that you are “all alone in love” with your partner. They might look distant most of the time, and you might even seem like the only one trying to make things work for both of you.
In a one-sided marriage it’s almost as if your partner are trying to let you know that they’ve fallen out of love but don’t know how to make you understand because they feel guilty about wanting to leave you.
So, are you in a one-sided marriage? Take our quiz and find out.
1. Do you still love your partner?
A. Yes, very much
B. I believe so
C. No, not really
D. I've stopped loving them a long time ago
2. Do you feel like your partner still love you?
A. Sometimes I have my doubts
B. No
C. I hope so
D. Yes
3. Who do you feel makes the most efforts to make the relationship work?
A. I do
B. My partner
C. Both of us
D. Both of us have given up
4. Do you sometimes fantasize about other people?
A. Yes, about my ex
B. No
C. I do sometimes
D. Yes, but it's nothing romantic really
5. Do you think you’ve lost interest in the relationship because your partner has possibly cheated on you?
A. Yes, exactly
B. No
C. Not really
D. Maybe
6. Has your partner taken you for granted which has contributed to your marriage being one-sided?
A. Yes
B. It is possible that I have been the one that has taken him for granted
C. It is possible
D. No, not at all
7. Do you feel like your partner has ignored you for too long and that’s why your marriage is one-sided?
A. Yes
B. . I am not sure
C. No
D. Not really
8. Do you think your marriage is the same as it was two years ago?
A. Definitely
B. Definitely not
C. Not really
D. Not at all
9. For how long have you had regrets about your decision to get married to your spouse?
A. For a few weeks now
B. For a few months now
C. For a few years now
D. It's been 5 years since I stopped questioning things
10. Do you and your partner still have regular conversations with one another?
A. Yes
B. No
C. Sometimes
D. It depends on what we both want to talk about
11. Do you still express your love for each other?
A. Yes, we both do that
B. Yes, I always do that
C. Yes, sometimes
D. No, not really
12. Do you still share details about the events of your day with your partner?
A. Yes, both of us do that
B. No, not at all
C. No, I don’t feel comfortable doing that
D. Sometimes
13. Do you still cherish your wedding day?
A. Yes, above all else
B. I’m not sure
C. No, not really
D. Sometimes
14. Do you feel that the marriage has become a burden on you?
A. Yes, totally
B. Yes, sometimes
C. Yes, I don’t know how long I can take it
D. No, not at all
15. Do you envy the happy couple around you?
A. Yes, I wish I was more connected with my partner
B. No, not at all
C. No, but I want make our relationship healthier
D. Yes, sometimes
