Do You Love Hard Or Keep Your Guard Up Quiz

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10 Questions | Updated: Sep 16, 2025

1. When you start liking someone, how quickly do you express your feelings?


Immediately; I can’t hold it in
I wait until I’m sure they feel the same
I rarely say it out loud first
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2. How do you feel about vulnerability in relationships?


It’s essential; I want to be fully open
I’m okay with some vulnerability, but I tread carefully
I keep most things to myself until I feel completely safe

3. A friend asks you how you handle heartbreak. What do you say?


“I crash and burn; I feel everything deeply”
“I hurt, but I recover steadily”
“I don’t let myself get too attached, so it’s easier to move on”

4. When your partner surprises you with affection, what’s your instinctive reaction?


I match their energy with equal or more affection
I enjoy it but take a moment to adjust
I feel a little uncomfortable but try to go with it

5. How do you approach trust in relationships?


I give it freely until someone proves me wrong
I give it gradually over time
I keep my walls high and let very few people in

6. Your ideal first date feels like:


A deep, soulful conversation over dinner
Something fun and light where we can test the chemistry
Something casual with no pressure to open up

7. Do you believe in love at first sight?


Yes, absolutely
Maybe, but I think love usually takes time
No, love needs years of trust and effort

8. When your partner texts less often than usual, how do you react?


I immediately worry or overthink; it matters to me
I notice but assume they’re just busy
I don’t overanalyze; I keep my distance too

9. How do you show love most naturally?


By being expressive, affectionate, and all-in
Through thoughtful actions and steady commitment
By being reliable but keeping emotions in check

10. What scares you more in love?


Losing someone I’ve given my all to
Opening up and realizing it wasn’t worth it
Being hurt because I let my guard down too much
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