1. Do you feel your husband considers you his equal in the relationship?
2. Does he go through your phone and question your whereabouts often?
3. Does he belittle you or make fun of you in front of friends and family?
4. Has your husband ever tried to harm himself to get at you? (If so, he needs help immediately because these threats can be dangerous)
5. When your husband is wrong, does he admit his mistakes?
6. Has anyone else commented on your husband's behavior?
7. Do you need to ask his permission for everything?
8. Does your husband criticize your every action?
9. Three words that describe your relationship would be:
10. Does your husband inspire and motivate you?