Do I Have A Lazy Husband Quiz

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10 Questions | Total Attempts: 1447 | Updated: Feb 24, 2022
1. Is this something new you are noticing in your husband, or has he always been this way?

I think he always has been, but I just didn’t notice as much as I do now
He’s always been this way
He has not always been this way
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Do I Have a Lazy Husband Quiz
Do you ever feel like you are putting in most of the work around the house or with other responsibilities in your marriage? Do you feel like your husband just expects you to take care of things while he just sits back and relaxes? Do these things see... see more
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2. Does your husband have any household responsibilities that he routinely does i.e., cooking, washing dishes, taking out the trash, cutting the grass, etc.?

No, I do all of that
Not regularly; he will only do them when I nag him about it
He used to, but not anymore
3. What does he typically do while you are doing things around the house?

Watch TV, play video games, sit on his phone, etc.
Go out with his friends or do things at home that he wants to be doing
Working or sleeping
4. Does your husband get annoyed with you if you are too tired or not in the mood for sex?

Sometimes
Yes, he never seems to care if I am too exhausted or not in the mood. He still expects it whenever he wants it.
No, he doesn’t seem much interested in sex lately
5. Does your husband clean up after himself?

No, never. No matter how much I do to try to keep things clean, it seems like he doesn’t even consider that and makes more of a mess
Sometimes, but only if I remind him to
He used to always, but not so much anymore
6. Does he act like his responsibilities and/or job is more important/stressful than yours?

Yes, all the time
He doesn’t ever say that, but he thinks everything he does at work is enough, and he shouldn’t have to be bothered with doing more when he gets home from work
He just seems very consumed with work, and it overwhelms him, but he never compares it to what I have to do
7. Do you frequently argue over marital responsibilities?

Yes, all the time
Sometimes, that’s the only way to get through to him
We never used to, but recently we have been
8. Does he ever use manipulation or threats to get his way and not have to make any changes?

Yes
Sometimes
No
9. Have you ever tried to sit down and split up the responsibilities evenly, so you both know what is expected?

I have tried that, but it seems like if I don’t do things myself, they just never get done
No, I have not tried that
We used to share them evenly, but not anymore
10. Have you ever tried to tell him what you want/need from him to make this better?

Yes, but he is unwilling to compromise and see things from my point of view. He can never understand where I am coming from and doesn’t even try.
No, I have not
I have tried, but it just seems like he has no desire to change right now.
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