Is My Girlfriend Using Me Quiz?

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15 Questions | Total Attempts: 1530 | Updated: Aug 25, 2022
1. Is she more likely to come around when she needs money or wants a free meal as opposed to being consistent with making plans to hang out with you?

No, our plans are pretty consistent and don’t seem motivated by money
Our plans are definitely not consistent, but I don’t think it has to do with money
Sometimes it seems that way, but not always
Yes, she definitely only commits to making plans when she wants me to pick up the tab
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2. Do you feel you are always chasing after her trying to make plans and she is slowly fading away or becoming uninterested?

Not really, but sometimes I feel like I am trying harder than she is
Sometimes, she is always ghosting me or taking very long to respond to my calls/texts no matter how hard I try
Sometimes she seems interested and I don’t feel that way, but other times I feel like she is doing a slow fade, it depends
Yes, I definitely feel that way
3. Do you hang out more in a group or just the two of you?

Alone
We hang out more in a group, but not every time
Both
Definitely in a group
4. Do you feel a genuine connection and attraction between the two of you?

Yes, most of the time
Rarely
Sometimes
No, most of the time I do not
5. Does she seem to blow you off and when she does finally contact you, it is because she needs something?

Not really, we have pretty consistent communication
Yes, but most of the times she doesn’t even come to me when she needs something either, it depends
Sometimes
Yes, definitely
6. When you put the moves on her, does she flirt back?

Yes, most of the time
Rarely
Many times she will change the subject or just completely ignore my advances
No, not ever
7. Does she display certain body language that makes you feel like she is into you (i.e. fixing her hair, positioning her body in your direction/closer to you, straightening her clothes, reapplying makeup/lipstick, etc.)?

Yes, she does those things
I am not sure, but I don’t believe so
Sometimes
No, I never notice anything like that
8. Do you feel like she treats you more like a friend or a lover?

Definitely like a lover
I feel more like a friend most of the time, but not always
It depends, I have felt both ways
Definitely like a friend
9. Have other people in your life questioned her intentions or made comments about her using you or taking you for granted?

Not to me
Yes, several times
A few times
All the time
10. Do you feel used by her?

I don’t know
Most of the time I do
Sometimes
Yes I do
11. Does she often keep her life private and you only know a few parts of it?

Yes
I think she does
She has clear boundaries and we have discussed about it
Not in my case
12. Does she show emotional connection?

When needed
We’re exploring
Sometimes
Yes
13. Do you feel she manipulates you often?

Yes
She sometimes hides things
No, she is just a closed book
Not at all
14. Does the relationship feel one-sided?

Yes
Sometimes
She has conveyed her intentions of friendship but I doubt
Not at all
15. Do you pay all her bills?

Yes
Sometimes
Rarely
No
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