1. How old is your wife?
2. Is this behavior something new, or has she always been this way?
3. Does anyone else close to her in her life (family, friends, etc.) ever comment about her temperament or have the same concerns you do?
4. If you have a sudden change of plans, is she understanding about it or not?
5. Does she ever just show up at places where you are without being invited and just “check in” because she was “in the neighborhood” or “thinking about you”?
6. Do you ever feel like she will drop anything to hang out with you or rearrange her whole life to make herself available?
7. Has she been experiencing unusual fatigue, hot flashes, weight gain, mood swings, chills, sleep issues, irregular periods, or other physical symptoms that have evolved recently?
8. Has your wife ever been diagnosed with or received treatment for a mental illness?
9. Do you feel like you both have your own independence in your relationship?
10. Does she often accuse you of doing things you are not doing, talking to people you aren’t talking to, or other outlandish accusations that she is convinced you are hiding from her?
11. When you ask your friends and family about her, what do they say?
12. If you do not call her one day, how does she react?
13. What happens when she is extremely upset with you?
14. How does she react if you post a picture with a close friend on your social media?
15. How does she react when you say you are going out with your gang?
