1. Does she show signs of insecurity?
2. Does she often hide things from you?
3. Is she envious of your minor accomplishments?
4. Does your mother-in-law think things are unfair when they involve you?
5. Does she attempt to downgrade your abilities and achievements?
6. Is she bitter towards you?
7. When you are being praised for something, does she join in?
8. Does your mother-in-law respect the choices you make?
9. Has she spoken badly about you behind your back?
10. Does she avoid you after you have done positive things?
11. Does she compare your lifestyle or achievements to others'?
12. How does she react when you discuss future plans?
13. Does she insist on taking control in situations involving you?
14. Does she make negative comments about your family or friends?
15. How does she respond when you receive gifts or attention from others?