Is He Serious About Me Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 4515 | Updated: Apr 22, 2025
Is He Serious About Me Quiz

Sometimes, it is easy to feel the shift but harder to name it.

He shows up and says the right things... but is he truly serious about you?

Maybe he pulls you close, only to keep parts of himself far away. Maybe his actions are sweet—but scattered. If you are feeling unsure or caught between hope and hesitation, you are not alone.

This "Is he serious about me?" quiz is here to gently help you explore what is really going on without pressure—just clarity, honesty, and a little peace of mind.

Questions Excerpt

1. Does he remember important dates like your birthday or anniversary?

A. Yes, always

B. Sometimes

C. No, not really

D. He used to, but not anymore

2. Does he ever surprise you with thoughtful gestures or messages "just because"?

A. Yes, he does sweet things without needing a reason

B. Sometimes, but it feels occasional or last-minute

C. He used to, but now it feels like a chore for him

D. No, he rarely goes out of his way for that

3. How does he behave when you are upset or crying?

A. He sits with me, listens, and tries to comfort me

B. He sometimes tries but gets uncomfortable

C. He used to care more when I was upset

D. He gets distant or dismissive

4. Does he remember the small details you tell him—your likes, dislikes, or little stories?

A. Yes, and he brings them up at the sweetest moments

B. Sometimes—he remembers a few things here and there

C. He used to remember more than he does now

D. No, he often forgets even important little things

5. When he talks about the future, does he include you in his plans?

A. Yes, he often brings up future plans with "we"

B. Sometimes, but it feels more hypothetical than real

C. He used to, but those talks have stopped

D. No, he talks about his future without including you

6. Does he check in on how you are doing emotionally, even when you do not bring it up?

A. Yes, he notices and asks with care

B. Sometimes, if something feels obvious

C. He used to, but now he seems more withdrawn

D. No, he rarely seems to notice or ask

7. Does he express pride in your achievements and successes?

A. Yes, he's genuinely proud

B. Sometimes, when he remembers

C. Not really, he doesn't say much

D. He used to, but not anymore

8. Does he make an effort to solve disagreements and conflicts?

A. No, he often shuts down or avoids it

B. He used to, but now he seems less invested

C. Sometimes—when the mood is right, or pressure builds

D. Yes, he genuinely wants to work things through

9. Has he introduced you to his closest friends?

A. Yes, everyone knows about us

B. Some of them

C. No, not really

D. He used to, but not anymore

10. Does he actively involve you in his future plans?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Sometimes

C. No, not really

D. He used to, but not anymore

11. Would he come to assist you if your car ever broke down in the middle of nowhere?

A. No

B. Maybe if it was convenient for him

C. I think so, but I am not entirely sure

D. Yes, without hesitation

12. Does he look worried when you are sad?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. I don't think so

13. Does he give you compliments about yourself all the time?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Sometimes

C. No

D. Only when he is in a good mood

14. Does physical intimacy feel mutually enjoyable and valued?

A. No, it feels disconnected or one-sided

B. Not like it used to be—it feels different now

C. Sometimes—it depends on the mood or timing

D. Yes, it feels emotionally and physically connected

15. Is he more than enthusiastic about Valentine's Day?

A. Yes, of course

B. Not really

C. Sometimes, it depends on his mood at that time

D. No, not all

16. Does his sister call you to gossip just to familiarize with you?

A. Yes, all the time

B. No, never

C. Sometimes

D. She used to, but not anymore

17. Has he ever taken you to see his mom?

A. Yes, he does so all the time

B. No

C. Not really, I only speak on the phone with her

D. He has, but it's been a while since he has done so

18. Does he want to be with you every weekend?

A. No, he usually has other plans

B. He used to, but lately, he seems distant

C. Sometimes, but it feels inconsistent

D. Yes, he always makes time for us

19. Does he send you flowers sometimes?

A. Yes, all the time

B. Yes, every once in a while

C. No, never

D. Only when I complain about him not doing it

20. Does he call you every day?

A. Yes

B. No

C. Sometimes

D. Only when he feels like it

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