1. How often does your partner bring up past relationships?
2. How often does your partner make negative comments about your friends or family?
3. Does your partner often criticize you or put you down in front of others?
4. How often does your partner make you feel guilty for spending time with friends or family?
5. Does your partner frequently use a third party to communicate with you?
6. How often does your partner refuse to take responsibility for their actions?
7. Does your partner often make you feel like you need to compete for their attention?
8. How often does your partner try to control who you spend time with?
9. Does your partner often make you feel like you need to prove your love or loyalty to them?
10. How often does your partner gaslight or manipulate you into questioning your own reality?
