1. Do you feel like your wife has become very emotionally distant in your marriage and isn’t making any effort to make it work?
2. Does it seem like your wife is no longer interested in doing things with you that you once enjoyed doing together?
3. Do you feel like your wife has become closed off from you, your family, and your friends?
4. Do you think you have been a good partner throughout your marriage?
5. Do you feel constantly degraded, inferior, or as if you can’t do anything, right?
6. Does it seem like your wife has become busier lately, either working late or spending time with friends, etc.?
7. Has there been more arguing and tension recently?
8. Has there been less intimacy?
9. Have there been any major changes or shifts in your marriage that have caused a lot of tension or confusion?
10. From your perspective, do you feel like your wife is drifting away, and there is something that doesn’t seem right going on? (You know her best!)