1. Does he talk to you all the time, even when it’s not about your child?
2. Is he still your best friend?
3. Does he still act like you are a family?
4. Does he drop everything when you text or call to see what you need?
5. Does he choose you over the one he dates?
6. Do you ever still hook up?
7. Do you ever argue with people he dates, or do they get jealous?
8. Does he ever do things to try to make you jealous?
9. Does he ever text/call you when drunk?
10. Does he ever suggest you still do things as a family with your child?
11. Does he ask your child about your plans, mood, etc?
12. Have you caught him staring at you?
13. Does he get nostalgic about the time when you were happy together?
14. Does he compliment you often?
15. Has he acknowledged/apologised for his part in the separation process?