Do You Have An Obsessive Love Disorder Quiz

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20 Questions | Total Attempts: 19183 | Updated: Apr 22, 2025
1. Do you tend to idealize this person or see them as perfect?

All positive
Both, I can see that they are not perfect, but that is okay
I'm aware of the negative things, but I try to focus on the positive
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Do You Have an Obsessive Love Disorder Quiz
Love can feel intense and all-consuming, but sometimes it crosses into something more overwhelming than romantic. Obsessive love disorder is not a clinical diagnosis, but it describes patterns like extreme attachment, possessiveness, or constant fear... see more
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2. Would you change your plans, routines, or priorities just to be around this person?

Yes, I do that often without thinking twice
No, I try to maintain a balance in my life
Occasionally, if it really feels important
3. Do you fantasize about being with this person constantly, even if they are not available or interested?

Yes, I cannot stop imagining a life with them
No, I am realistic about my feelings and situation
Sometimes—I know it is just fantasy, but I enjoy it
4. Have your friends or family ever expressed concern about your attachment to someone?

Yes, they have said I seem too obsessed
No, they think my relationship is healthy
A few times, but not in a serious way
5. Do you try to find out where they are or who they are with when you are not together?

Yes, I often try to track their whereabouts
No, that is not something I feel the need to do
Sometimes, especially when I feel insecure
6. Do you feel anxious when you do not hear from the person you love for a while?

Yes, I get really anxious and start overthinking
Not really, I trust they are just busy
Sometimes—I do worry but try not to let it affect me too much
7. How do you usually respond if they do not answer your call?

I call them multiple times until they pick up
I wait—they will call me back
I get a little worried and try once or twice more
8. How often do you check or engage with this person on social media?

At least a few times a day
Sometimes., when I check on my feed
I do not have a count
9. Which of the following do you tend to obsess about most?

People who I am attached to
Mostly fictional characters, celebrities
No one in particular
10. Do you get angry if someone says anything bad about your crush/partner?

Yes, I get angry
Sometimes, when they are very rude
I might feel bad, but I do not react
11. Do you feel like someone has taken over most of your thoughts lately?

Yes, I cannot stop thinking about them
No, not really
Sometimes—it depends on the day
12. Do you find yourself excessively preoccupied with someone you have strong feelings for?

Yes, very often
Never or rarely
Sometimes
13. Do you get jealous when you see your crush or partner speaking to other women or men?

Yes, all of the time
No
Only when I feel insecure around the other person
14. Do you talk about the person you’re in love with often?

Yes
No
Sometimes
15. Have you expressed your feelings to this person, or do they know how strongly you feel?

Yes, of course!
No, because I’m not in love with them
Not yet
16. Do you lose focus on important tasks because you're thinking about the person you’re in love with?

Yes
No
Sometimes
17. Do they often show up in your dreams or daydreams?

Yes
No
Sometimes
18. When you’re with your family and friends, do you feel you need to speak about your crush or partner?

Yes, they are constantly on my mind
No, not really
I don’t need it, but I do if it seems relevant
19. Do you feel like you message them more than you probably should?

Yes, I can't help it
No, just when necessary
Sometimes
20. Do your feelings for this person feel a bit overwhelming or all-consuming?

Yes
No
Not sure
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