1. How many times do you fight in a day?
2. Do you share any common interests with your partner?
3. Do you respect each other’s differences?
4. Are you happy with the physical intimacy in your relationship?
5. Do you two get disrespectful or verbally abusive while fighting?
6. Do your fights get physical?
7. Do you both hold on to resentment for a long time?
8. Do you find it difficult to concentrate on your routine activities after fighting with your partner?
9. Do you think the fights are affecting your or your partner’s mental and emotional well-being?
10. How would you describe your fights?
11. Do you feel that your big arguments are a culmination of unresolved smaller arguments?
12. When you argue, are there often criticisms, blaming, shaming, or name-calling involved?
13. If you disagree on a topic and can’t seem to find a resolution, what do you normally do?
14. Do you feel like you are walking on eggshells made of unresolved issues?
15. If you are wrong in a particular situation, do you have a hard time accepting your mistakes?
