Fights or arguments in any relationship are pretty normal, but fighting too much can prove to be detrimental to a relationship in the long run..
Toxic fights can damage a relationship beyond repair, and also affect the couple’s overall well-being. So, do you think you and your partner fight too much?
Well, take this ‘Do We Fight Too Much Quiz’ to know if you are fighting a lot for real or if you are just overthinking.
1. How many times do you fight in a day?
A. I have lost count!
B. We do not mandatorily fight every day!
2. Do you share any common interests with your partner?
A. Many
B. None/Just a few
3. Do you respect each other’s differences?
A. Yes/ We try our best!
B. No actually
4. Are you happy with the physical intimacy in your relationship?
A. No/Not really
B. Yes
5. Do you two get disrespectful or verbally abusive while fighting?
A. No/Rarely
B. Always/Mostly, yes
6. Do your fights get physical?
A. No
B. Yes/Occasionally
7. Do you both hold on to resentment for a long time?
A. No, we don’t/Rarely
B. Yes/Sometimes, it's me and sometimes it's them
8. Do you find it difficult to concentrate on your routine activities after fighting with your partner?
A. Yes
B. No
9. Do you think the fights are affecting your or your partner’s mental and emotional well-being?
A. It’s affecting my well-being for sure/My partner seems to be affected
B. No, we both are keeping well
10. How would you describe your fights?
A. They are usually just arguments
B. Nasty!
11. Do you feel that your big arguments are a culmination of unresolved smaller arguments?
A. Yes
B. No
12. When you argue, are there often criticisms, blaming, shaming, or name-calling involved?
A. Yes
B. No
13. If you disagree on a topic and can’t seem to find a resolution, what do you normally do?
A. Agree to disagree
B. Bring it up any chance I get to prove I was right, and they were wrong
14. Do you feel like you are walking on eggshells made of unresolved issues?
A. Yes
B. Rarely/Not really
15. If you are wrong in a particular situation, do you have a hard time accepting your mistakes?
A. Yes, I hate admitting when I am wrong and usually don’t admit to it
B. No, not really
